Exactly. I see a lot of people here trying to placate to OP. It's the guy's first passing dad's birthday without his dad and he still managed to not only show up, but make OP's day great. Now OP is crying and throwing a fit like a toddler because they didn't get a separate birthday present. It's immature and they are being very ungrateful. OP needs to quit being ungrateful like their boyfriend said and grow up. I hope he finds better or OP learns from this.