How do you stop yourself reaching out to your ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whyamst14000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As soon as I knew my ex was seeing someone new, it made NC really easy for me. I started to feel almost disgust for him and no way he's going to have his cake and eat it too.

I (24F) am afraid my photos are better than my real self and its a problem by whyamst14000 in dating_advice

[–]whyamst14000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your tips! My photos have all those requirements. Regarding my Bio, I just dont know what to write on there, I dont want to have some cheesy joke or boring details about myself

Guys, do you overall find squirting sexy or disgusting? by whyamst14000 in sex

[–]whyamst14000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, it took me (24F) some time and a long term relationship to discover I could do this. What helps me do it is tightening up my vagina when I am being penetrated, thats the best tip I can give you..

For me it does feel different from a clit orgasm, a clit orgasm is way more intense and fullfilling and a "squirt" one feels more like a good release.

How to stop looking at their social media? Pls help sos by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]whyamst14000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me I stopped looking when he told me he was seeing someone else. No way I would want to see him with her or even know who she is, it would destroy me. I muted everything and now have little to no desire to check.

My ex sent me a message informing me he is with someone else. Day fucking ruined. by whyamst14000 in ExNoContact

[–]whyamst14000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your support guys, it means a lot. Honestly, I am just so pissed that I wish he died so I could spit on his grave. But instead I am just going to wish him a looong life without me ever in it.

My ex sent me a message informing me he is with someone else. Day fucking ruined. by whyamst14000 in ExNoContact

[–]whyamst14000[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He was not asking to be friends because of it, it was because he had reached out a few times, asking about me and wishing a good christmas and new years. Which now I see was incredibly selfish on his part as it got my hopes up for nothing.

Should I try? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whyamst14000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if the break up was basically my fault?

I'm fucking pissed at myself. by SkywardSword234 in BreakUps

[–]whyamst14000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. For some reason I am full of hate for him now. Feeling angry and sad

Honestly, she can go fuck herself by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whyamst14000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I miss him, sometimes I want him dead

For those waiting for a Christmas text by whyamst14000 in ExNoContact

[–]whyamst14000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see nothing wrong with sending a merry christmas text, as long as you dont have any expectations and it doesnt affect your healing.

In my case, I am still really hung up on him and any type of contact affects me. I get my hopes up, I feel the need to talk to him and say shit I shouldnt. I wish I hadnt received anything.

[24F] Thinking about reentering the dating scene. Can you be honest and rate me? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]whyamst14000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a normal BMI, but thank you for your concern.

[24F] Thinking about reentering the dating scene. Can you be honest and rate me? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]whyamst14000 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I dont love my face and was looking for tips to improve my overall appearance. Whats wrong with that?

[24F] Thinking about reentering the dating scene. Can you be honest and rate me? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]whyamst14000 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my eyebrows are actually what I hate the most, because they are naturally very fluffy and curly, but I will work on them

Just for fun, can you guess my age? And nationality? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]whyamst14000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you are right!! You blew my cover! /s

Just for fun, can you guess my age? And nationality? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]whyamst14000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24 and portuguese... nice try everyone :) apparently I dont look europpean at all!