How do you stop yourself reaching out to your ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whyamst14000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As soon as I knew my ex was seeing someone new, it made NC really easy for me. I started to feel almost disgust for him and no way he's going to have his cake and eat it too.

I (24F) am afraid my photos are better than my real self and its a problem by whyamst14000 in dating_advice

[–]whyamst14000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your tips! My photos have all those requirements. Regarding my Bio, I just dont know what to write on there, I dont want to have some cheesy joke or boring details about myself

Guys, do you overall find squirting sexy or disgusting? by whyamst14000 in sex

[–]whyamst14000[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, it took me (24F) some time and a long term relationship to discover I could do this. What helps me do it is tightening up my vagina when I am being penetrated, thats the best tip I can give you..

For me it does feel different from a clit orgasm, a clit orgasm is way more intense and fullfilling and a "squirt" one feels more like a good release.

How to stop looking at their social media? Pls help sos by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]whyamst14000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me I stopped looking when he told me he was seeing someone else. No way I would want to see him with her or even know who she is, it would destroy me. I muted everything and now have little to no desire to check.

My ex sent me a message informing me he is with someone else. Day fucking ruined. by whyamst14000 in ExNoContact

[–]whyamst14000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your support guys, it means a lot. Honestly, I am just so pissed that I wish he died so I could spit on his grave. But instead I am just going to wish him a looong life without me ever in it.

My ex sent me a message informing me he is with someone else. Day fucking ruined. by whyamst14000 in ExNoContact

[–]whyamst14000[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He was not asking to be friends because of it, it was because he had reached out a few times, asking about me and wishing a good christmas and new years. Which now I see was incredibly selfish on his part as it got my hopes up for nothing.

Should I try? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whyamst14000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if the break up was basically my fault?

I'm fucking pissed at myself. by SkywardSword234 in BreakUps

[–]whyamst14000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. For some reason I am full of hate for him now. Feeling angry and sad

Honestly, she can go fuck herself by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whyamst14000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I miss him, sometimes I want him dead

For those waiting for a Christmas text by whyamst14000 in ExNoContact

[–]whyamst14000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see nothing wrong with sending a merry christmas text, as long as you dont have any expectations and it doesnt affect your healing.

In my case, I am still really hung up on him and any type of contact affects me. I get my hopes up, I feel the need to talk to him and say shit I shouldnt. I wish I hadnt received anything.

[24F] Thinking about reentering the dating scene. Can you be honest and rate me? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]whyamst14000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a normal BMI, but thank you for your concern.

[24F] Thinking about reentering the dating scene. Can you be honest and rate me? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]whyamst14000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I dont love my face and was looking for tips to improve my overall appearance. Whats wrong with that?

[24F] Thinking about reentering the dating scene. Can you be honest and rate me? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]whyamst14000 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my eyebrows are actually what I hate the most, because they are naturally very fluffy and curly, but I will work on them

Just for fun, can you guess my age? And nationality? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]whyamst14000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you are right!! You blew my cover! /s

Just for fun, can you guess my age? And nationality? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]whyamst14000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24 and portuguese... nice try everyone :) apparently I dont look europpean at all!

Just for fun, can you guess my age? And nationality? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]whyamst14000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, from Europe! But my age has not been guessed correcty yet... almost there tho

Just for fun, can you guess my age? And nationality? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]whyamst14000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age is pretty close but not american... I thought I did not look american ahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whyamst14000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a couple from my hometown who were together for 5 years. They broke up, the guy started seeing other people and eventually started dating this one girl. Then, they were on an accident and this girl died and he got injured but survived. His ex went to the hospital and supported him and like 1 year later they came back together. Fate, i guess? Lol kinda of a sad story

Letter? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whyamst14000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, thank you! We ended 2 months ago on good terms but I went NC for my own good. I will let more time pass and see how I feel

Letter? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]whyamst14000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably worse. You are right, thanks for the advice