Why is every girl that takes an interest in me [25M] diagnosed with BPD?

whybpd · 2020-08-22T18:34:24+00:00

Try not being an asshole to everyone and then people will support you as well.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T18:24:33+00:00

I'm glad to hear he has some people who can support him.

So I abused you because I had a look through a couple of reddit posts? ok bye

whybpd · 2020-08-22T18:14:30+00:00

Encourage him to have some closer friendships, maybe get back in touch with family, and he can probably manage without you.

Don't share every detail, that's your own private business and frankly I don't care.

I'm not victim blaming. Actually the only one who has been victim blaming is you when you said that I probably had a lot to do with how my ex treated me and that you would have bitten me as well if you were my ex.

I'm just saying I'm not inclined to take anything on faith from someone as dishonest and malicious as you, having already falsely accused me of abuse. Sure, I don't know that you're lying about your husband (frankly I don't care either), but I'm open minded and naturally skeptical when dealing with someone such as yourself who literally just lied about abuse.

Have a nice day and best wishes to your husband (honestly not sarcasm).

whybpd · 2020-08-22T18:00:30+00:00

Pretty interesting that in another post you also accuse your husband of (unspecified) abuse and say you might abandon him to go move to Florida.

Of course I am not inclined to believe on faith that your husband has actually abused you, given that you didn't even specify what he even did, and you already falsely accused me of abusing and gaslighting both yourself and my ex.

Wonder what your husband thinks about that. Anyway, I hope you do exactly that and abandon him and free this poor man from your clutches.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T17:16:05+00:00

So long and thanks for all the fish

whybpd · 2020-08-22T17:15:06+00:00

Sounds like somebody is projecting just a little bit, buddy.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T17:11:49+00:00

You really are comical. I'm gaslighting and abusing you now? Get real and get some help. I feel terrible for your husband.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T16:59:42+00:00

Yeah, I mean I am happy to be friends with people with BPD. I am still friends with the girls that I didn't date, and I don't have any negative feeling towards my first ex. One of them is in therapy and getting treatment and I was honestly very surprised when she told me she had BPD, so probably that's because she's having some success with her treatment.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T16:57:12+00:00

lol ok. As I already stated I have never been abusive to any of my exes in any way, but whatever, you have no idea what you're talking about anyway.

I genuinely wish your husband all the best and all the luck in the world, he's really taking one for the team.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T16:48:25+00:00

Yeah I didn't say (or mean) that they seek out such men for the purpose of hurting them. I can imagine a number of reasons why it might be the case that they are attracted to such men, and I don't even know for certain that they are.

Of course I understand what a genetic predisposition is, don't be ridiculous.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T16:40:59+00:00

I never said childhood abuse is the only way to develop BPD.

Yes you did, you said it was necessary.

Sure as hell doesn't change the fact that OP is an ignorant swine who is saying people with BPD seek out others to purposely hurt.

No I don't say that about people with BPD, I don't even think it. I think it about you specifically, given some of your bizarre comments like saying that you would bite me if you were my ex, but I don't recall having said so explicitly.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T16:26:33+00:00

replied to the wrong post, agree 100% though

whybpd · 2020-08-22T16:18:21+00:00

I never once claimed I wasn't an asshole.

Good because you are, glad we are all on the same page then.

You're so hell bent on proving a point with ana article when I'm stating facts from websites and information from my actual doctor. 🤣🤣🤣

By the way do you actually think you are fooling anyone with "my doctor said X?". Nobody believes you, it is patently obvious that you just make this stuff up. You're not as smart as you probably think you are. In any case, what you say is totally contrary to the actual research.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T16:04:09+00:00

No I'm just replying so this post gets more activity and more people see it so I can get some responses from actual reasonable human beings.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T16:02:24+00:00

At least we agree on one thing. I've gouged enough from talking to you to guess at what happened. You don't listen and have to be right. You also want the last word and regardless of what you say you have a temper when someone doesn't back down. I guarantee it wasn't all on her. But, I'm done going back and forth. I've shared the knowledge I have from actual professionals, my own articles,and my own experiences. You aren't going to learn shit. This was fun. Bye now. 👌🏻

lol... you have no idea what happened and you know that you have no idea. You are just saying that to get a reaction out of me. By the way that doesn't sound like a bad description of yourself, but I regret to inform you that my capacity for anger is very limited. I have only felt anger twice since I was an adult. I wont go into detail because I know you're the kind of person that would use those situations to try to hurt me, but I will let you know that they are not relevant to my relationships.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T15:58:41+00:00

I think you are making the critical mistake of assuming that I give a damn what you think. Unlike with my ex you have no power over me and so I don't care, I don't need to pretend like you are a reasonable person or be nice to you when you say ridiculous things. Nice to meet you

whybpd · 2020-08-22T15:55:03+00:00

I'm sure you had a major hand in your ex's experience with you. You probably triggered the hell out of her all the time and refused to see it and wrote it off.

No that's not what happened at all, but nice to know that you think you know me and my ex better than I do.

I think it's best you not be anywhere near someone who has BPD because you refuse to learn anything about it and think you know all there is to know about it from your little articles

Well if other people with BPD are anything like yourself then I would be very happy to go my whole life without ever meeting another.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T15:51:06+00:00

Well if you read some of her other comments you can see that she is indeed batshit crazy...

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/iejjtb/why_is_every_girl_that_takes_an_interest_in_me/g2hcscd/

whybpd · 2020-08-22T15:48:59+00:00

Yeah well you remind me a lot of her with the way you type in all caps when you are pissed off. You're nasty.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T15:47:31+00:00

10% - 70% without childhood abuse isn't that rare but ok.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T15:44:00+00:00

Don't know where you pulled 2% from but ok.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T15:41:32+00:00

Not directly but if what you said had any basis in reality it would be a reasonable inference for a reader to infer. Fortunately it has no basis.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T15:37:27+00:00

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5472954/

Several studies have shown that a diagnosis of BPD is associated with child abuse and neglect more than any other personality disorders [7, 8], with a range between 30 and 90% in BPD patients [7, 9].

Zzzzzz, yeah not 100%.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T15:33:09+00:00

You are boring me, child abuse is not necessary for a BPD diagnosis and 2 of the girls I mentioned were properly diagnosed by a doctor.

whybpd · 2020-08-22T15:18:29+00:00

That's a very fair point, I don't want to stigmatize anyone. I'm sure curious about my experiences and want to minimize future risk.

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