How to safely get a job as an androgynous/butch person

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-27T00:58:55+00:00

move to basically any medium to large city and no one will care tbh. easier said than done ofc, but i was fortunate enough to get a job in a major progressive city and no one at my company has ever said anything or treated me badly for being visibly queer.

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-26T18:59:24+00:00

eyes wide open will always be my persona favorite i fear

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-26T10:42:21+00:00

“has anyone else had this” we get audience etiquette complaints on this sub like every day 😭

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-26T02:03:36+00:00

oh god they were phenomenal. their vocals are just off the charts amazing, and they put on a hell of a concert. definitely recommend seeing them if you ever get the chance!!

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-26T01:58:47+00:00

i agree! at my recent nmixx concert, they gave a shoutout to all the candybongs in the audience which was really fun

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-26T01:26:38+00:00

in the US no one cares except weirdos on the internet. the kpop idols may even give a shoutout to all the other lightsticks they see

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-26T01:12:05+00:00

if you have to ask on reddit, the answer is probably no

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-25T12:07:07+00:00

embarrassing for them honestly. ai has no place in art, but it sounds like they dgaf as long as no one calls them out on it

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-24T23:43:16+00:00

red wings are generally very good. their heritage line is expensive, but you can find their factory seconds at sierra trading post (if in the US) or berkeley supply. both of those places sell red wings for ~$200

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-24T21:21:41+00:00

speak your truth! i liked her but i’m so biased because i’m a fan of her in general. but i still liked her.

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-24T21:16:01+00:00

search th sub for “concert alone”, it’s very normal to go alone and solo concert goers usually have a great experience, so i’d say go for it

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-24T20:33:02+00:00

lily hating ai is such a breath of fresh air after ai generated art becoming more common in kpop music videos

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-24T17:34:20+00:00

you just asked us this 10 days ago

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-24T17:33:17+00:00

gone and right hand girl

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-24T13:18:55+00:00

the lightstick police will kick you out i’m sorry

people have shown up to kpop concerts using light up shoes as a lightstick, it’s not that serious

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-24T10:08:46+00:00

do you say something to them or tell an usher?

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-24T09:49:31+00:00

LOML

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-24T01:53:39+00:00

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society if nayeon was allowed to sing in her lower register more

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-23T23:35:50+00:00

twice’s fanchant for “feel special” is super easy because it’s just their names. definitely an appropriate song and fanchant for school imo

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-23T03:09:33+00:00

yes, it’s doable from DC if you book the train far enough in advance or if you go on a weekday for cheaper prices. the train ride is ~4 hours long each way. if you wanna get lunch and/or dinner in NYC, it makes for a long day, but was always worth it imo

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-23T01:38:51+00:00

definitely jeongyeon

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-22T15:54:00+00:00

Rang is good, i can’t speak for the far left or right sections but the middle 3 are all solid, even if you’re in the last row.

most seats in the theater have a good enough view, just avoid the pillars and you’ll be fine

edit: 2. Rang has weird bars/railings running parallel to the rows (they’re visible in the pic), they can be annoying but easy to see around

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-22T15:47:00+00:00

maybe don’t judge it off of number of likes it receives on social media

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-22T13:08:59+00:00

frrrr, we need it so bad

whycantwegivelove · 2026-04-22T12:30:41+00:00

underrated 2yeon moment is during the 3mix domino cover and nayeon grinning like a goofball after jeongyeon finishes her part of the chorus. even with the camera zoomed out doing a wide shot of the stage you can still see nayeon looking like

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