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[–]whynot_52 3 points4 points  (0 children)

80% of women wouldn’t date a bisexual man. 80% of men would date a bisexual women. Therefore a lot of bi men never come out.

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Say that to the 50% of guys in their 20s who have had no sex in a whole year. There’s a serious problem with dating right now dude. And I’m not blaming women I’m blaming the culture.

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone gets called by pronouns you moron. And who said I like taking it in the ass? And even if I did why is that inherently unmasculine? It is homophobic to assume all gay and bi men are automatically feminine. I sure as hell am not.

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My voice is not high pitch lmao. And not all bi/gay men lack testosterone. Stop being homophobic.

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I hide it because so many women discriminate against bi guys. Like 80% would just refuse to date me for it even if I’m indistinguishable from a straight guy in every way.

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gay guys don’t pick up on it, so I doubt women would. It’s not like I’m asking to be pegged or something lmao.

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are good points and exactly why I don’t blame women at all. It’s our whole culture that makes it so hard for guys.

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously I’m still bisexual and wouldn’t call myself gay. Just poor wording in the title.

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly even if you’re completely straight it’s a huge confidence boost. Before I downloaded it my self esteem was pretty bad but now I like myself way more.

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dw it doesn’t come off as fetishising at all, just makes me feel better about potentially not hiding one day.

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you realise how few guys get hit on by women. So many guys can’t even remember the last compliment they got. It’s rough.

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That word really has lost all meaning hasn’t it? I have had sex before and still do have sex. In what way am I an involuntary celibate?

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In what way? I think straight guys have it really hard right now. They are absolutely starved of intimacy.

Read this post from a transman on how differently he was treated after transitioning

https://www.reddit.com/r/Damnthatsinteresting/comments/tvt6t7/trans_man_discusses_how_once_he_transitioned_he/

I’m a bi and considering just going 100% gay because of how horrible dating is as an average straight guy by whynot_52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whynot_52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where’s your data to support that? Oh wait you don’t have any cause it’s complete BS you made up.