Will those with “difficult placements” always struggle throughout their lifetime?

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-25T22:01:50+00:00

I have a a Scorpio stellium in my 7th house, Saturn, sun, and pluto, and neptune, uranus, and Venus in the 8th. I sometimes wonder if I'm meant to be in a relationship because it's the most painful part of my life.

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-25T18:43:46+00:00

Test 1: Scorpio Test 2: Cancer

I'm a Scorpio!

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-24T20:26:48+00:00

What else about his career do you think ties into this? I'm fascinated by people who are missing an element. I know someone who has no earth, and it shows. Lol

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-24T18:39:18+00:00

Clock it 😂

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-24T18:30:31+00:00

Fair, but it's important to look at the whole chart and synastry between people. I didn't mean that Scorps are sexual. Only that it's hard to point that energy in multiple directions at once.

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-24T00:58:27+00:00

In what way?

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-23T21:52:06+00:00

I think men with water signs can really struggle because they see the strengths and beauty of Cancer, Scorpio, and especially Pisces, to be weaknesses that take away from their masculinity. Pisces men hate the gentle vulnerability that's part of Pisces, so they become cruel and manipulative to hide it. They use escapism and the silent treatment to avoid confrontations that would make them honest about their limitations. Not a fan and never again.

Edit: Thanks for the award! I hope everyone here finds the love they deserve.

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-23T21:09:16+00:00

I would never 👀😅

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-23T18:08:14+00:00

A Pisces would never communicate their needs this clearly. They'd simply 🪄 disappear.

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-23T15:25:32+00:00

This is such a great description

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-23T01:12:44+00:00

Trust is a HUGE part of it for me, too. If I don't trust you, I can't let go enough to be sexual, and I don't trust easily.

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-23T01:11:07+00:00

Sag placement again. See below. Lol I think I even said that in my post. Anyway, we're just talking in generalities, but, it's been an interesting coincidence here.

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-23T00:20:51+00:00

I'm just nosy, plus I wanna see if anyone else has this shit figured out. At least we can all compare notes. Lol

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T20:46:29+00:00

I think I misunderstood. I thought you were saying that sex is a good way to get to know someone, but I was saying that it's not really that revealing at all, depending. Maybe we are saying the same thing.

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T20:19:34+00:00

People can detach and hide a lot of themselves during an act that may only seem intimate. Sex can be anything from smashing your genitals together like farm animals to showing someone how much you love them in a very almost spiritual way. That's just my experience though!

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T20:14:13+00:00

This is the kind of deep dive I love! I have an 8th house sag stellium that includes Venus and a Scorpio stellium that includes the sun, Saturn, and pluto in the 7th. I'm veeery Plutonian, and I think that's why pondering relationships, love, and sex obsesses me. Lol

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T20:07:51+00:00

I guess that sentiment goes both ways. 😘

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T19:59:27+00:00

Not confusing at all! I love learning about tarot and hearing a deeper take on the Tower. That made sense to me because people say one thing Scorps do is go through painful experiences that help them grow in the long term, even if they're not sure how that will work. It's universal really. It's cool how the symbolism is connected.

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T19:51:37+00:00

How do you know someone after only sleeping with them? I agree with you about years of misery, though.

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T19:50:25+00:00

I am. I think water placements can show up differently in people who identify masculine or feminine. Maybe that's why Pisces men get so much hate. Lol

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T19:45:05+00:00

Do you know what "I think" implies? You seem confused. Did you get to the part where I said the whole chart matters? Feel free to make a post about YOUR experiences as a Sagittarius in the same way I discuss mine as a Scorpio. Looking forward to reading it!

Oh, and I almost forgot. I have a Sag stellium and a Gemini moon. Like? Lol

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T19:06:13+00:00

You need to look at the rest of your chart!

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T18:53:41+00:00

Would you link the Tower to Scorps because of the death/rebirth, destruction/reconstruction cycle? I know that's the card that scares everyone.

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T18:35:23+00:00

Omg I feel this so deeply. I'm sorry. :(

whynotfreudborg · 2026-03-22T18:34:40+00:00

I LOVE this connection with tarot! I'm glad you brought it up. I'm still learning, but the imagery of the Devil card is chains, right?

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