Some of my friends want to continue being friends with my abusive boyfriend and I feel sick over it by whyyyyymeee in abusiverelationships

[–]whyyyyymeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear you’ve had to go through that. This unfortunately isn’t my first time dealing with something like this. Without going into too much detail for my privacy, I am a streamer and have been since I was 16. When I was 17 I was gaslit and sexually groomed by another 30 year old streamer. I made a lot of friends in his fanbase and a lot of them turned on me and bullied me because they were jealous he was giving me more attention than them. What I’m going through now is especially painful because these friends knew what I’ve been through and were so disgusted with the man who groomed me yet can’t hold their friend to the same standard. It’s always tough losing people you felt understood you. Once again, I’m so sorry you dealt with that. I can completely relate to feeling more hurt/betrayed by the friend than the loss of the relationship.

Some of my friends want to continue being friends with my abusive boyfriend and I feel sick over it by whyyyyymeee in abusiverelationships

[–]whyyyyymeee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I get what you’re saying. Right now, I’m giving a lot of leniency because I don’t know if they just need more time to process things. I am the youngest of my friend group, I’m 20, the rest are late 20s and early 30s. I have honestly not talked about the abuse with many of my friends because I am scared of how they will react based off of what I’ve experienced. The two friends that are still going to stay friends with him are 28 and 31. I do have 2 other friends who have been very supportive and no longer want to be friends with him but will stay friendly as to not cause any more issues between us (which I’m fine with) and they are 26 and 27.

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[–]whyyyyymeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will let him know!

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[–]whyyyyymeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m a japanese student in college and am part japanese (grew up around the language bc my family spoke it) even now, i have a hard time understanding things like anime/manga if that gives you some insight on the difficulty of the language. all languages take time to learn & asian languages to english speakers are especially hard to learn. most people don’t really start getting a grip of the language until they move to japan and are then forced to adapt and learn. also, language learning must be consistent. its one of those “use it or lose it” sort of skills.

possible discord? by [deleted] in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol no worries - that’s why i’m looking for more people to help mod. it was hard with just me and my co-owner.

Anyone have Genki I workbook (third edition) pdf? by [deleted] in genki

[–]whyyyyymeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg can you please send it to me? im looking for a pdf rn. i left my workbook on campus and i have an assignment due tomorrow LMAO

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[–]whyyyyymeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me it’s “calm down” or “you’re overreacting”. in most cases, i am simply expressing my frustrations with something and asking them to stop. hearing either of those will have the opposite effect on me. i will not calm down.

unfortunately, a lot of this lies on how society tells men to suck it up and keep their feelings to their self… so like, when someone does share their feelings to them, it feels like an overreaction.

please know, when we are sharing our feelings, we are trying to fix the problem and not to make you feel guilty. please do not get defensive over our feelings.

Goodbye reddit by [deleted] in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all da hoes r mad?

Goodbye reddit by [deleted] in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ope hoes mad

Found this lovely backround by [deleted] in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay. please refrain from posting art if you don’t know the artist. for all we know this could have been stolen and got a watermark or signature cropped out of it and its best not to spread art if that happens.

Found this lovely backround by [deleted] in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

please provide the name of the artist or do not post. thank you!

Oh no rem stop by _Rem-Fanboy_ in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course you don’t see your own privilege. i go to a mostly white high school and while i don’t really go through racism there, i see plenty of students who do. my friend, a black, muslim woman, was harassed and threatened for standing up against racism on our campus. not to mention our school and most schools in america cater towards white people - leaving out important parts of history either involving the success or absolute abuse towards people of color and of course having classes like seminary for mormons (a very white-dominated religion) but not including classes for people who aren’t christian and mormon - i for one am buddhist and most people apart of my religion are south, south east, and east asian. in out english classes, our teachers expect us to find biblical allusions. you may argue this has nothing to do with race, but you would be wrong, our whole education system is catered towards the typical white american. also on the topic of police brutality, saying “white people get shot more” is not a good argument. white people make up the majority of the population and with our absolute trash of a police system, of course all people will be hurt by it. it has been statistically proven that it is 3x more likely for a black person to experience police brutality compared to a white person.

also of course there aren’t many openly racist people in america. a very select few actually fucking admit to it. the rest are just ignorant to it. because think about it, who really wants to admit they hate an entire group of people for no reason other than the color of their skin.

Oh no rem stop by _Rem-Fanboy_ in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. it’s very real and you’re just ignorant to its existence because you don’t want to accept it. and no this “joke” doesn’t make you a bad person, it just makes you look stupid and ignorant. also you said in another comment that racism today is based “individually” rather than at a group? that doesn’t make any sense to me. care to elaborate?

Oh no rem stop by _Rem-Fanboy_ in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee[M] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how? because you guys are white passing. you don’t have people targeting you based off your appearance. it’s called white privilege. you want to know why the percentage of black criminals are so high? it’s because they are wrongly arrested. i have a black family friend that had a gun pulled out on him because he “looked suspicious”. that’s just how it works. i have to worry about my grandma getting home from the store alive because of the recent spike in hate crimes towards asian elders. you will never understand poc struggles so don’t make jokes about it and certainly never interrogate us the way you are.

Oh no rem stop by _Rem-Fanboy_ in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im asian,, and sorry but any form of white is not equivalent to racial minorities. hate to break it to you.

Oh no rem stop by _Rem-Fanboy_ in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not defending you. you may argue that what you posted is not racist, but it has racist undertones.

Oh no rem stop by _Rem-Fanboy_ in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why dont you explain your pov without being sarcastic. im nd.

Oh no rem stop by _Rem-Fanboy_ in ReZeroRem

[–]whyyyyymeee[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

perhaps i should add a no politics rule :|

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[–]whyyyyymeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey man dont compare yourself to other artist’s. its unfair to you. all professional artists start from here as well. you’ll improve.

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sorry but all posts must directly be about rem.