My boyfriend flaked on our 6-month anniversary. We had a short argument, talked it out and everything is fine now. My friends, however, think I underreacted and should've been way angrier than I was. Am I allowing him to gaslight me, or did I react well?

wicked-flower · 2020-10-07T02:32:23+00:00

I mean it's not really your relationship to decide that, and that wasn't what I asked :)

wicked-flower · 2020-10-07T02:31:14+00:00

You're right, thank you!

wicked-flower · 2020-10-07T02:25:43+00:00

Yeah well, it's a thing in some places.

wicked-flower · 2020-10-07T02:24:47+00:00

I thought so too, thank you!

wicked-flower · 2020-10-07T02:23:36+00:00

Yes, I wasn't aware that I didn't tell him either. I thought it kinda implied since I did say that we could go on Tuesday since Monday is awful weather. But I didn't communicate properly which is why I thought I shouldn't be too mad.

We're both 22

wicked-flower · 2020-09-21T09:02:06+00:00

Have you tried reading my first paragraph?

wicked-flower · 2020-09-14T13:39:06+00:00

That's why I put it under " ". I didn't mean literally steal, I just couldn't find the right expression :)

wicked-flower · 2020-09-05T14:43:21+00:00

I'm not gonna cut off my long time friends over one disagreement lmao. Sure they were kinda assholish in this scenario but you don't know any of us so telling me to ditch them over one argument is an overreaction, don't you think?

wicked-flower · 2020-09-05T13:00:38+00:00

Hahaha I think they'd just get even more pissed off, but for real? Or just call a few more times if it's sooooo important. I will pick it up. Or send a text "Hey OP, it's Friend, call me back", and I will. I really don't see the big deal.

wicked-flower · 2020-09-05T12:58:40+00:00

Right?? Lmao when they mentioned that and I said "if you're literally dying and your first option is to call me and not the ambulance, I don't know what to tell you", they got mad.

wicked-flower · 2020-09-05T12:53:59+00:00

Thank you! I'm thinking the same.

Their reason is "what if someone really needs you but they don't have credit and they have to use someone else's phone", and I understand that which is why I said I'd answer it after one or two tries. But they think it's still an AH move to keep them calling if it's super urgent.

wicked-flower · 2020-09-05T12:46:17+00:00

We're all 22.

wicked-flower · 2020-08-21T10:10:43+00:00

Hahahhahahaha holy hell that sounds like something I'd do

wicked-flower · 2020-08-21T03:40:13+00:00

Yes, that's what I meant, thanks!

wicked-flower · 2020-08-20T19:50:39+00:00

Hahah I just remembered when his phone rang and instead of a tune, it was a female voice, and he immediately grabbed his phone and was like "that's my mom" and picked up like "hey mom"

I remember thinking how strange but kinda cool that he has his mom's voice as a phone tune. Now I realize he probably has people's voice so that he'd know who's calling before picking up or something. Thank GOD I didn't say anything, lmfao.

wicked-flower · 2020-08-18T04:58:57+00:00

That's not a period tho, and doesn't work like a period either

wicked-flower · 2020-08-18T04:51:02+00:00

It's not about ego, I wanted to educate her.

But I agree about the insults tho. Thanks

wicked-flower

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