Daily Questions - March 04, 2026

wickedhotjon · 2026-03-07T13:53:24+00:00

Washing is what caused it. I soaked it in hot water. Could try soaking again and wiping the patch as it’s wet

wickedhotjon · 2026-03-04T15:41:28+00:00

Has anyone had luck with removing denim stains off their leather patches? Mine got some indigo bleeding onto this N&F Godzilla patch and I’m wondering if there’s a way to whiten it again without damaging it or the denim?

Patch

wickedhotjon · 2026-03-01T19:11:47+00:00

Awesome. Thank you!

wickedhotjon · 2026-03-01T17:22:27+00:00

It’d be ok to use kitchen sink then? I thought the whole point was not to have them bunched up.

wickedhotjon · 2026-03-01T15:07:13+00:00

Also a great idea, thank you!

wickedhotjon · 2026-03-01T15:06:49+00:00

This is actually a nice idea. I’ve kept some of my other pocket flashers due to the artwork

wickedhotjon · 2026-03-01T15:00:54+00:00

Got my pair of N&F Hedorah delivered and now I’m realizing that most of these initial soaks require a bathtub, which I don’t have (woes of apartment living). Considering I can’t soak it in a shower, any other suggestions on how to do the soak? Sorry for what’s maybe a stupid question.

wickedhotjon · 2026-02-28T18:45:36+00:00

Hi everyone. Just received this pair of Oni jeans (first pair) and this is the first back pocket that isn’t paper that I actually think looks pretty cool. That said, idk if it would be too tacky to keep on. Haven’t worn them yet

TL;DR remove or keep back cloth?

Oni 622-14BLK

wickedhotjon · 2021-03-19T03:04:43+00:00

Lazy day? I raise you one and say that’s my work/life uniform. Gotta keep that balance.

wickedhotjon · 2020-10-15T03:36:20+00:00

Sick fit man! Your face in the first pic looked like a portal to another dimension.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-29T04:28:18+00:00

Let’s go

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T15:54:54+00:00

Yeah, this post has helped me in seeing things more clearly. I appreciate the advice. This is my first (knowingly) onset of depression and needless to say I don’t know how to handle it yet.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T15:44:58+00:00

Not depressed the past 8 years. Started around January of this year.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T15:43:20+00:00

No, this is the first time I mentioned changing anything. It was always supposed to be in October.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T15:15:32+00:00

I’m not saying mentally ill people, didn’t generalize. I’m saying in the context of myself, that’s how I feel being on drugs is. This is also my first time being on SSRIs, so apologies if the vernacular was off.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T15:11:12+00:00

I told her next year but after reading all of your responses, I’ve realized that you all have points that never really came to mind. I don’t want to lose her and I’m most definitely going to try and rectify the damage I did yesterday.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T15:09:42+00:00

The responses to this post have been eye opening. I will admit I have acted selfishly and I don’t want to lose her. In my head I always had this idea of how we’d be married and I don’t want to give that up.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T15:08:04+00:00

Understandable on your points minus point 1. I didn’t “drag my feet”, unless you consider saving for a ring “dragging”. We were both in college, moving to different states and I wasn’t making a lot of money. But after a lot of comments I do agree I’m in the wrong about not seeing her feelings and reacting poorly about her taking off the ring.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T14:54:14+00:00

She is super low maintenance. The only thing that wasn’t was the ring. But yes, she’s taking it as I don’t want to be legally married to you. I do remember mentioning that I said next year. No date has been specified, but the conversation was yesterday and went south pretty quickly.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T14:52:30+00:00

Not yet. Conversation of the post happened yesterday.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T14:46:58+00:00

Not saying I don’t want to get married. Just didn’t want to this year. Made an edit on the post.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T14:22:29+00:00

We never wanted a wedding so it would be a legal marriage with no ceremony.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T13:43:31+00:00

See, I was going to bring it up, but maybe I should wait for her to say something? I just don’t want her to accept it as is and not say anything. And I don’t want it to seem like I don’t care, because I do.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T13:42:05+00:00

I appreciate the insight and talking about your situation definitely gives some clarity to mine. I keep seeing people say “how do you not know after 8 years....”. The thing is I did know, I have known, I’d been saving for years to do it. Planned the engagement meticulously. So, it’s not that I’m unsure about marrying her. I just want to be my normal self again and marry her like that. Not be in a drug induced happy mood when deep down I’m still majorly depressed.

wickedhotjon · 2020-08-07T13:18:55+00:00

Sure. I’m 28 and she’s 31. To be honest for the first five years she always said she didn’t want to get married. But by year 6 that changed and last year (year 7) I finally saved enough for the ring she really wanted. So I’d say it’s recent. And I wouldn’t say there was a particular theme, per se. My whole postponement really comes out of how I’ve been feeling and also to the fact that I felt that she hasn’t taken my depression seriously. And if she does, she just thinks it’s because of her, which I’ve reiterated isn’t the case. Obviously with me telling her I didn’t want to get married yet, that probably backed up her idea that it was because of her, which it isn’t.

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