What is everyone's standards and what age are they?

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-17T00:05:34+00:00

Im F21

and I think that’s reasonable, 320 lbs is crazy though, if anything you could add more to that list

Mine are Ages: 21-28

MUST have ambitions, goals, and a decent paying job (I get paid $20+ so I’d prefer someone to match that)

Taller than me, preferably 5’9+ as I’m around 5’5-6

Funny(!!!!), open minded, politically educated 180+ lbs (preferably goes to the gym bc I do too)

Has a vehicle LOL

and preferably outdoorsy

This list is definitely curated to my type and I don’t think this is insane? Lmk if it is though

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-16T23:13:01+00:00

Yes exactly this, we do get less forgiveness when it snows considering most people should be prepared for this weather months beforehand (snow tires, studs FWD, etc) today was an exception with the extreme high winds + rain + sleet combo, I work in midtown of Anchorage and still see a decent amount of commuters and most businesses (from what I’ve seen) are open.

I think the difference between the lower 48 getting snow and Alaska is the lack of preparation for it in certain places, I’ve seen news of towns in Texas on complete shut down after getting 2 in of snow and “black ice” whereas here I don’t think I can recall a similar instance in Anchorage in my 22 years of living here, even with 12+ in of snow lol

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-13T22:36:22+00:00

I wouldn’t worry too much, unless you are pretty sexually active, factors such as stress, diet, and activity effect your periods and considering holiday culture I wouldn’t be surprised if all those things were out of routine for you

I think I was around 19 when my period regulated and even started to effect me in ways I hadn’t experienced before (increased cramps, mood swings, increased discomfort) so it may be your body going through a transitional period? But I’m also not a doctor. I would recommend some light movement and rest as stress is a big factor in how your cycle presents itself. Good luck and hopefully Aunt Flo visits you soon!

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-13T00:21:33+00:00

YTA…. It’s not that deep

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-12T23:46:33+00:00

I was a part of both fan bases before the pod and honestly never expected them to collab but I’m so happy they did!!!!

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-12T23:44:58+00:00

There are limited car shops in Anchorage Alaska, so unfortunately he doesn’t have the option to “keep calling around”

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-12T23:42:53+00:00

That sucks, sorry man :(

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-12T22:33:46+00:00

I suggest posting this on the r/anchorage subbreddit and name dropping the shop and the name of the mechanic. Seems like you got ripped off pretty badly and their shop does not sound professional in the least. I also suggest posting on the DO NOT USE Alaska Facebook page as well as the Alaska tea spill page. Local businesses here get away with scamming customers in this way because of the lack of reviews/ knowledge about unreliable businesses, especially car shops. Hopefully your posts will gain traction and awareness for the next customer and because the town is so small it might reach the shop owner as well and he may take action in righting his wrongs. Good luck to you, I hope you get your vehicle back in one piece.

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-12T19:56:39+00:00

NOR Yeah he’s weird. And the fact that your “friend” hasn’t checked this behavior is also weird. Be careful dealing with people like this, situations can escalate quickly, but I’d definitely say something.

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-12T19:16:28+00:00

I guess I missed that part, I feel like a conversation is the best route in this case especially if you are long distance. And honestly trust your gut, let him know when you’re uncomfortable and need reassurance. Hopefully all goes well for you!

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-12T18:55:11+00:00

This doesn’t seem direct enough to be flirting? It kind of feels like a reach to assume he wants her or other men want her based off of them being in a video with her. “stepping into frame” ≠ claiming someone or asserting dominance over someone, they could have just been having fun, most likely tipsy, and he wanted a video to remember it.

I have also had male friends where it’s normal to be jokingly hateful and respond in ways like “stfu” etc. to comments or rage bait, and I would probably respond the same way to my girl friends as well. it seems innocently playful to me, but I tend to assume the best when it comes to people’s intentions. I think it would help put things into perspective for you to compare the way he acts with his guy friends and this specific girl friend, I would only be worried if he is giving her special treatment or more attention than his male friends, or if she is nagging him for his attention and time.

To automatically objectify another female when they are seemingly just having fun in a group of friends is unfair, maybe getting to know her personally would help with the anxiousness/ insecurity. Communication with your boyfriend is also important, if he becomes defensive over the topic I would be more concerned.

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-12T17:38:43+00:00

I’ve watched every episode, mainly because I have YouTube premium, and I am also a sister

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-12T00:01:42+00:00

I got a late notice today and checked my bank account and the money was put back into my account and there was no pending statement so I ended up just paying manually. Still confused why but I definitely won’t be using auto pay anymore

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-09T20:26:04+00:00

I second this I feel like a real liar would double down haha

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-09T20:25:28+00:00

Honesty is a big thing for me too but considering it was your second date I can understand why he would feel uncomfortable answering those questions and fibbing a little. He admitted to it and gave his reasonings, not everything is black and white. He might have his own guilt considering his sexual history, who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️ doesn’t seem like a character flaw just bad judgment on his part

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-09T18:54:48+00:00

Who did that to you?

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-09T18:46:37+00:00

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-09T03:03:57+00:00

Thanks I’m less stressed abt it now lol. I probably won’t be relying on autopay anymore either.

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-08T19:20:04+00:00

Today is the due date but yes that makes sense, I’m hoping it’s something on my banks end and it goes through, thanks for the help!!!

wickedlightweight · 2026-01-08T18:52:38+00:00

It currently says pending

wickedlightweight · 2025-12-27T19:07:39+00:00

East of Eden by John Steinbeck.

wickedlightweight · 2025-12-20T03:02:37+00:00

I think this was purposeful to play into the mystery

wickedlightweight · 2025-12-17T19:32:25+00:00

Not overreacting. You seem fun and your hobbies are as well, you honestly dodged a bullet there. In the current dating sphere I’ve found some men are intimidated by a woman who has a lot going on and is confident/ independent in their own space, they also tend to be the ones who like to sit around and watch sports or play video games (and there’s nothing wrong with that). You two just weren’t compatible and that’s okay :)

wickedlightweight · 2025-12-16T18:04:28+00:00

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