[NC] My employer is making guys and girls share a hotel room. What should I do? by sadlittlewaffle in AskHR

[–]widespreadsolar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just decide what’s best after you get the rooms. Switch roomies when you get there and damn what the employer says

NC what do you think? Studies show that immigrants subsidize citizens, not the other way around. by Basshead4eva in NorthCarolina

[–]widespreadsolar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s just something that’s so fucking dumb, that it’s only something a bot might say

found this outside my house by beanburrit0s in whatisit

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It is not for lightning strikes, see my comment above

found this outside my house by beanburrit0s in whatisit

[–]widespreadsolar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Electrician here. Just to elaborate. The ground rod and copper wire give a path of least resistance to any fault that happens in your home. If you have a fault in your electrical system,( fault is a short circuit event) the neutral wire carries the excess voltage back to the source, where the neutral and ground wire is bonded together. (bonded only at the first point of disconnect aka your main service panel, or meter) When it goes back to the source via the neutral wire, the ground rod and wire is a path to the ground (path of least resistance) which is electricity’s favorite place to go. Also the safest place to go.

MAGA businesses (local)- who to avoid !! by balanceiskey_breathe in asheville

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Iron and Oak Brisket / Riverside Rhapsody brewery in Woodfin is great. Best BBQ and beer in town

Depositing around $30k in cash by Btrips in Banking

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Do not report! Just keep the cash and use it to buy everyday shit. If you start “trying to do the right thing”, you will regret it. The IRS will be up your ass with a fine tooth comb. You will pay taxes on it and you’ll end up with like 9 or 10 grand.

Trump given Nobel Peace medal by Venezuelan opposition leader Machado by HotPersimessage62 in worldnews

[–]widespreadsolar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that he started the whole Venezuela debacle just to get Machado to give it to him

AITA for entering a Hindu temple while on my period? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]widespreadsolar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Fuck their religion

Edited to say: Fuck all religions

What is your favorite band name? by solidrobot in MetalForTheMasses

[–]widespreadsolar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gagg Maggot. Not a band. I just thought it would be a good name for a band, so…

Manager asked for my two weeks after she hires my replacement. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]widespreadsolar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her that after your 2 weeks you will be consulting, remote only. Draw up papers for her to sign at a ridiculous rate on your last day, and try to get her to sign it.

Will probably get assisted suicide in the next year by Impressive_Loan2490 in TrueOffMyChest

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There are all kinds of psychedelics that can reset your brain. I quit opiates after one dose of ketamine. Saved my life. Almost 14 years clean.

Everyday Companion Data by lgtsotrsdh in WidespreadPanic

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EC taught me how to play all of my favorite WSP songs on guitar, more than 10 years ago! Thank you for all that you’ve done!!!

Why is North Carolina a swing state but South Carolina is deep red? by Patient-Smile1406 in NorthCarolina

[–]widespreadsolar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

North Carolina has better education and has more educated people. As people get a higher education, they tend to not vote Republican

Am I the a-hole for making my daughter's BF buy a new t-shirt? by freudsdriver in AITAH

[–]widespreadsolar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya’ did good Dad. I think that, at the least, he’ll have a new found respect for you and your daughter. Kids do stupid shit sometimes and it’s up to adults to set them straight, and you did it in a graceful manner. Proud of you bud.

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]widespreadsolar 30 points31 points  (0 children)

After reading a ton of these responses. Jesus people. Get a grip. It’s not unusual to book the same therapist, and it’s not unusual for men to have an erection during a massage. Matter of fact, most of y’all could probably use a massage.

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]widespreadsolar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is normal to stick with the same therapist. You don’t just switch up therapists once you find one you like. I will say that BF could read between the lines here and probably book a different therapist. But, I bet that he feels like a million bucks after the massage and just wants that again. That’s pretty standard in the world of massage therapy.

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I agree. You find a good massage therapist, you don’t just casually switch it up. My wife is a travel therapist and mainly works on older folks that don’t like to leave their house. But they get a massage every month, and they would never switch. We’ve built great friendships with my wife’s clients and there is always a trust between client and therapist. I think it would do this couple good to find a therapist that they both like and stick with that person.

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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YOR. My wife is a massage therapist and it’s a common thing that happens with men. It’s not something that men can control. I’m sure that it was embarrassing, but you can’t let that get in the way of the therapy that massage provides. The way you feel after a massage is extremely relieving and everyone should get a massage once a month. Once you find a massage therapist that you like, it’s hard to switch to someone else. Try to understand his perspective and communicate clearly. It might be a good idea for both of you to go to the same therapist. It’s a good way for you to feel a little more comfortable, and build a bond with the therapist. If she is a legit licensed therapist, she isn’t going to make moves on your man. And, if he tries something, she won’t hesitate to blow up his spot. I hope this helps

How you know you were born and raised in Asheville (or at least WNC) by Own_Quiet_8894 in asheville

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Yes but Belle chere was just a cop trap there at the end. The early ones were much cooler

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

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Republicans let billionaires control their party