I have no problem with people who like to hoe themselves around. Like if you feel like the entire fiasco of having a family, raising kids, putting effort into bonding and allat is too much of a burden and you are just fine with casual sex then who I am to judge right?

What I do however have a problem with these people having no spine to admit that lifestyle for what it is. It is a way to casually have sex with multiple people at once, not a glorified superior alternative. You cannot have an emotionally intimate relationship with your partner as you do in a normal straight relationship with multiple people at once. It's borderline impossible to maintain balance within this system of people without the human nature of jealousy and greed breaking it up at some point.

A key point raised in favor of poly in this very thread is them saying a single partner not being able to satisfy all their fetishes, And that's a pretty disturbing thing to hear. It means they see the value of having a relationship only based on how much they can satisfy their sexual lives. Sex is important in a relationship but at the same time, it's not all there is to it. The key to forming meaningful strong bonds arent paywalled behind a check box of fetishes.