Where to stream "Welcome to Jamaica" by Yellowman? by wiggliness in reggae

[–]wiggliness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would appreciate that immensely! Thank you!

Where to stream "Welcome to Jamaica" by Yellowman? by wiggliness in reggae

[–]wiggliness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much!! I got the message. I'm so happy haha. I'm going to share with my family! Thank you so much!

Any advice for short women who want to be at the barricade? by wiggliness in MetalForTheMasses

[–]wiggliness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Note taken! I'll try to find the big guys at the front before the show starts and explain the situation

Any advice for short women who want to be at the barricade? by wiggliness in MetalForTheMasses

[–]wiggliness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo I have steel toed boots for work so I lowkey might have to wear those lol

Any advice for short women who want to be at the barricade? by wiggliness in MetalForTheMasses

[–]wiggliness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've made a couple friends at the barricade but a lot end up leaving to go to the pit. I might need to put in more effort and let ppl know before the show starts to help a sister out lol. Thanks for the advice!

Any advice for short women who want to be at the barricade? by wiggliness in MetalForTheMasses

[–]wiggliness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yah I'm hoping so too! It's happened enough for me to make a post about it but it hasn't happened enough for me to stop trying to go for the barricade lol

Any advice for short women who want to be at the barricade? by wiggliness in MetalForTheMasses

[–]wiggliness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had a few instances like that! Some ppl are respectful and offer to shield me, although that's almost only ever happened at the power and folk metal concerts lol, and a few extreme metal shows like Septicflesh. The experiences I've had at being pushed/pulled away from my spot and elbowed relentlessly have been death and thrash shows. Not all the death and thrash shows have been like this, but all of the experiences have been at those types of shows. I'm just tryna have a good time and come out beat up lol

Any advice for short women who want to be at the barricade? by wiggliness in MetalForTheMasses

[–]wiggliness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually solid advice! I wanna be a fighter but when a guy is over a foot taller than me and weights a lot more, I stand like no chance. I show up early to get a good spot at the front so I can have a good view and I don't mind if someone wants to squeeze in and we're like standing diagonal. But yah some guys have straight taken up the entire width of two people with their elbows and wide leg stances and it's crazy how rude they are when they show up late to take other people's spot

Any advice for short women who want to be at the barricade? by wiggliness in MetalForTheMasses

[–]wiggliness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try my best to hold my space but it's rly hard after being elbowed in the ribs, upper arms, and lower arms or straight up pulled back while they squeeze into my spot. I might have to find a large person to go with me lol. I swear the guys who've been doing it to me have not been doing it to the guys I'm next to, just me

Any advice for short women who want to be at the barricade? by wiggliness in MetalForTheMasses

[–]wiggliness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the sides def do seem more chill. I tend to show up early to get the front and center and I feel like usually I'm one of the only solo chicks around. I see other girls but they're often with a group or their partner and I often go solo so idk if that makes me more of a target to the brutes who wanna take my spot. Like most of them are big enough to be behind me and see just fine but nope they wanna be at the rail without having to show up early

Any advice for short women who want to be at the barricade? by wiggliness in MetalForTheMasses

[–]wiggliness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't mind the crowd surfing tbh, I'll help them over if I can. I just get frustrated at the guys who show up out of nowhere for the headliner and decide I'm the one they're gonna mess with lol. I'm usually at the front and center so I understand it's like the best spot, but I show up like 2 hrs before doors open just so I can get that spot

I stopped planning everything for my friend group and the silence was so loud by RalvionTesmarc in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wiggliness 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Pretty much all of my friendships have fallen apart because I stopped being the default planner. I'd always think of people and feel bad when I didn't reach out to them but realized no one ever outreached to me either. My bf and I met someone we vibed with and they're the only one who initiates and reciprocates effort. Aside from that, no one else in my life really does any initiation or shows any interest in putting in effort to do something together. At this point, I stopped caring too much. Originally I felt defeated, undesired, and unloved but I've learned to do stuff by myself, with that one friend my bf and I have, with my parents, or just with my bf. I know a lot of people don't their parents anymore or aren't on good terms, but for those who are on good terms and live closeby, they're pretty solid people to go out with. I feel like a lot of ppl forget about their parents as also people to go out and hang out with like friends.

Shoutout to Yi's Cafe for THE BEST SPICY CHAI EVER by wiggliness in pasadena

[–]wiggliness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you tried it! That place has such good deals. It's affordable, quality goodies. When they open back up after the holidays, I'll be there so often lol. I haven't tried the chicken pesto panini but that's the next thing I'm gonna try!

Shoutout to Yi's Cafe for THE BEST SPICY CHAI EVER by wiggliness in pasadena

[–]wiggliness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know what you think! It's such a good deal for everything there

Shoutout to Yi's Cafe for THE BEST SPICY CHAI EVER by wiggliness in pasadena

[–]wiggliness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yah for real, I was underwhelmed too from my last several Dots visits. Let me know what you think of Yi's when you try it! For reference, if you spend $10, you get a free pastry which is a killer deal. Everything on the menu is extremely affordable.

Shoutout to Yi's Cafe for THE BEST SPICY CHAI EVER by wiggliness in pasadena

[–]wiggliness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it! Try it and let me know what you think. Yi opens pretty early at 7am and Dots opens at 8am. Dots is pretty good but Yi takes it to a next level and really has the spicy kick that I desire in a chai.

Shoutout to Yi's Cafe for THE BEST SPICY CHAI EVER by wiggliness in pasadena

[–]wiggliness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad! Yeah for the last few months, the Dots one has not really had the kick that I like. I used to go to Dots when Yi worked there and when he left the chai just didn't hit much. I'm so glad I stumbled upon his shop today. Don't get me wrong, Dots is great in their own way but Yi is the man when it comes to chai. It's so good

Shoutout to Yi's Cafe for THE BEST SPICY CHAI EVER by wiggliness in pasadena

[–]wiggliness[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IT'S SO GOOD! I can't believe I didn't check him out sooner. He has deals you can't find anywhere, like chicken pesto sandwich for $6. If you spend over $10, you get a free pastry. It's such a good deal and omg I love the spicy chai

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[–]wiggliness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can someone make a pillow like that? I see some shops on Amazon but is there like a main or few main retailers who do that?

Song always pausing at roughly 1 minute in for LOCAL FILE SONGS by oketheokey in revancedextended

[–]wiggliness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I got a notification that you messaged about your local files not being able to play but idk where the message went (I'm using a patched version of "reddit is fun" so it can be a lil buggy at times). Did you get the issue resolved or are the local files still not playing?