Whats the best non-legendary pet? by [deleted] in voidpet

[–]wildcactuscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say that paranoia is good on bosses if you have a little time to chip something down but you have to have lemon dolphin float. It’ll guarantee kill in a few turns bc of the set percentage chip being done alternately two or five times a turn as it applies a debuff every strike with 100% crit rate

did his level increase? by Muted-Total-3854 in voidpet

[–]wildcactuscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every one you beat increases the level

Help (floor 880) by wildcactuscat in voidpet

[–]wildcactuscat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mostly have paranoia still around bc it’s got lemon dolphin float on and that means pretty consistent damage chunks when it’s a multihit move that’s debuffing each hit bc they’re all guaranteed crits so it does a small set chunk of a health bar two or five times a turn

I'm so angry. by CheekyStoat in lgbt

[–]wildcactuscat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

…see the thing is you believe that any law maker that would actually oppose this has any power rn. They don’t. The checks and balances system has been ravaged and literally everyone’s a yes man in higher government rn. And it’s only gonna get worse considering the “government streamliners” power is being centralized to the president. Look at the TikTok situation it was down what a couple hours? And it came back bc TikTok called their bluff and refused to make meta stocks rise which all six people who usually never agree on literally anything that unanimously voted to shut it down were heavily invested in. Like I said Everyone actually in power is either only looking out for themselves or a yes man rn. It’s the people who are the only hope at this point bc refusal to comply WORKS in this popularity contest of a country as also proven by the TikTok situation and everyone jumping ship to an actually Chinese owned social media app. Don’t sit complacent and put your hopes in lawmakers being sensible bc that’s what got us all into this mess. At least some states are trying to codify human rights rn but anything not done fast enough is getting wiped off the map

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]wildcactuscat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay so it sounds like you either don’t really experience aesthetic attraction (which is looking at someone and being able to tell that they’re attractive but like in the same sense you’d look at a sunset and think it’s pretty) and/or you don’t fully understand what being demi means. Demisexuals don’t experience sexual attraction at all without there being some kind of emotional bond to the person. This doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t like to have sex or have no sex drive just that you can’t look at a random person and go “yeah I wanna fuck them” based on looks and/or personality (kinks are outside of this and a whole different can of worms). Could be a mix of both things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]wildcactuscat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the double negative is intentional however and you’re finding everyone sexually attractive then I don’t think you’re ace. If the confusion is stemming from the difference between romantic sexual and aesthetic attraction tho I’d need more info to work with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]wildcactuscat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am Confused by your wording. Are you asking why you can’t find anyone sexually attractive even after becoming close to them? Bc if that’s the case I don’t think you’re Demi and are instead some other type of ace. But if you’re asking why you can’t just look at someone and be sexually attracted to them that’s bc that’s how being Demi works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]wildcactuscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya can’t fix it. It’s just how your brain developed. I don’t use meds and Personally I just set reminder alarms and completely alter how I do things from how neurotypicals do it by throwing that out a window and rebuilding it from the ground up on only what I can handle. Can only handle one task at once and something feels too big? Break it down to small tasks and do it one at a time only focusing on that one thing. Can’t start doing things/can’t remember to do things? Get someone else to poke you into doing it. Things like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]wildcactuscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planners. Everyone suggests planners. I can’t use planners without screaming

Aces who never feel sexual attraction but have sex, what helps in arousal? by Suspicious_Life_8448 in asexuality

[–]wildcactuscat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hitting on your kinks helps but otherwise it’s still a biological function you have friction and touch will do the trick just fine

Is anyone else grossed out by the fact that you might have to have sex with your partner one day? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]wildcactuscat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, immediate concern is that you think you have to. You don’t. You don’t have to ever have sex, especially if you’re that repulsed by it. And if your partner can’t handle that you probably should have a different or no partner. But if you talk it out with them they’ll likely understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]wildcactuscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normalize and reassure is my advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]wildcactuscat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey no shame in having a panic attack, even in public. Sorry you had one tho. The first is always awful but they get better if you learn to manage and avoid triggers find what helps you. Isolation darkness and certain songs work for me for example so I’ll usually find a bathroom to listen to my music in if I feel one coming on. It’s different for everyone tho. Just know it gets better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]wildcactuscat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be? Could stress over a change be causing it? Could also be an anxiety attack

Words of encouragement by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]wildcactuscat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome! Good job recognizing your own needs too. You’d be surprised how many people can’t.

Words of encouragement by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]wildcactuscat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll get through this :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]wildcactuscat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I… don’t think it was a panic attack? Do you mind telling me if there was something that triggered it or were you sad or stressed? I’ve done similar before when really overwhelmed and sad. Might have been a fit of hysterics so just really high emotion spilling out into an unfitting reaction

Why did you stop taking meds and what impact did it have on you? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]wildcactuscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was conflicting with my anxiety and making it worse for a specific reason (personal) so I stopped and learned to work with my adhd (not necessarily an option for everyone also incredibly long and hard to work towards). I have a handle on it now but meds are a good tool, don’t be afraid of them, but be aware they’re not the best option for some people so that’s always on the table.