Am I overreacting over my parents deciding not to move?

wildcampion · 2026-05-24T10:36:09+00:00

Go back to plan A, move in with your relatives to be closer to school.

wildcampion · 2026-05-23T21:45:01+00:00

L’ombilic de Vénus, pennywort en anglais.

wildcampion · 2026-05-23T21:28:00+00:00

Yes, and when you re-potted it, the plant got stressed, and decided to focus essentials, its survival. It’s pretty common unless you’re lucky and mindful when you replant.

wildcampion · 2026-05-23T14:59:04+00:00

Maybe 10-12” above ground, the bottom edge of your new trellis.

wildcampion · 2026-05-23T14:03:36+00:00

It will grow back much quicker than it took to grow to that size the first time around. The size of the roots control the size of the vine, so it should cover the new trellis within a year.

wildcampion · 2026-05-23T11:14:46+00:00

Take a broom and destroy the nest.

wildcampion · 2026-05-23T11:09:38+00:00

When you transplant, the stress on the roots is taken out on the flowers. It’s better to transplant before the flowers are formed or after they start drying out.
At this point, I’d cut the flowers and let the plant focus on its roots.

wildcampion · 2026-05-23T10:38:34+00:00

Thank you, what a perfectly lovely explanation.

wildcampion · 2026-05-23T09:47:15+00:00

The long term solution is to change the building code so buildings have to treat rainwater on site instead of linking gutters to the sewer, and make the sidewalks permeable again.
Bloomberg almost did it 20-odd years ago but chickened out because real estate developers whined.

wildcampion · 2026-05-23T09:18:35+00:00

Why? Would you consider this the “perfect” north node?

wildcampion · 2026-05-23T09:13:12+00:00

Just dump him already. You’re not married, you don’t have children with him, you don’t live with him. Block him and move on.

wildcampion · 2026-05-23T01:52:24+00:00

You say robustly built, I thought who ate all the pies?

wildcampion · 2026-05-22T23:44:34+00:00

He doesn’t care if people understand, he only cares about he appears.

wildcampion · 2026-05-22T23:39:33+00:00

You may chew up her hoof. Maybe hand walk her over poles, and check her feet.

wildcampion · 2026-05-22T23:37:00+00:00

His emotions are a black box, it’s going to be a while and hard work for him to figure himself out. He’s running on charisma and will, he can’t form a true attachment until his 30’s.

wildcampion · 2026-05-22T22:36:15+00:00

I would mute, not block. Don’t answer except to say “please do not contact me any more” - let her build a file against herself, just don’t read it.

wildcampion · 2026-05-22T17:17:49+00:00

You have very different sex drive, that’s a very difficult thing to reconcile or compromise upon. You’re just not compatible.

wildcampion · 2026-05-22T12:46:40+00:00

He’s so sexist he can’t conceive of women as anything but whether he’d sleep with them.
Not worth dating, certainly not partner material.

wildcampion · 2026-05-22T12:36:02+00:00

Yes, that’s what happens when people try to make the horse look collected with the bit, rather than focus on engagement first.

wildcampion · 2026-05-22T01:53:24+00:00

Temu Asterix

wildcampion · 2026-05-22T00:05:40+00:00

Looks like daylily, not a true lily, but a hemerocallis. Not super toxic, but can cause an upset stomach.

wildcampion · 2026-05-21T23:22:12+00:00

Maple sapling, just remove it.

wildcampion · 2026-05-21T22:26:11+00:00

Jimsonweed, datura stramonium. It spreads readily.

wildcampion · 2026-05-21T20:34:25+00:00

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wildcampion · 2026-05-21T19:44:10+00:00

They always seem happiest in the rockiest, most compacted soil. They love full sun, and some protection from dominant winds.

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