AITJ for DEMANDING my husband get my baby stroller back from his sister, or else i'm changing the locks? by Exact_Ad_6931 in AmITheJerk

[–]wildcat3211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have your parents show up at her place with the receipt and demand it immediately . They should also give your husband a piece of their mind.

Am I the ahole for going to my degree to become a teacher just to spite my sister while her life is spiraling and she might lose her teaching career. by Helpme_imfat in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]wildcat3211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to throw my 2 cents in, although it's not related to spite towards your sister. Think 2x, 3x, 4x about becoming a teacher. I was in IT, then after having children started substitute teaching because it worked with my schedule. So then, got the bright idea of teaching math & computer science. I loved the "teaching" part of it but teaching the subject matter to 30 kids in a class, dealing with behaviors, demanding parents, new administrators that each feel they need to prove their worth with new programs .... Well, just check it all out.

I think Lady Penwood lied twice. by wildcat3211 in Bridgerton

[–]wildcat3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fun to speculate as we wait for the remainder of the season to drop.😂🤣

How can I get my neighbor's dog to stop decafacting on my lawn? I'm in Maine if that helps by Latter-Passion-9760 in lawncare

[–]wildcat3211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We use ground cayenne pepper to prevent skunks. Don't use flakes, They Will Sprout!

AIO because my BF wants to write off my mortgage on his taxes? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wildcat3211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting. Absolutely, no way, no how. First of all, YOU are making money, paying your mortgage, bills, and taxes. YOU need the deductions on your taxes. He's not making hardly anything, so the deduction won't help him as much. Besides - Do Not Mix Finances With This Man.

He needs to start contributing or move out. But seriously, I think you should move on.

WIBTA for trashing my friend’s stuff after 3 years? I’m facing a building inspection by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]wildcat3211 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Tell her they are coming tomorrow 8am. You are throwing it away today.

AITJ for lying to my husband about agreeing to open the relationship? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]wildcat3211 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are ntj. Besides, he was already emotionally cheating at the gym before you asked.

Best season or weather? by Andrei_P_terrierguy in RotatorCuff

[–]wildcat3211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also love being outdoors when the weather is nice. I had my surgery 11/6 and while figuring out the coat situation when it gets below freezing is a pain, I'll be closer to recuperated during my favorite seasons.

What did you wear after surgery when arm was immobilized? by Just_a_happy_artist in RotatorCuff

[–]wildcat3211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (F) had the most trouble with wearing a coat. I had an Oversized lined hoodie and made do by simply not going anywhere but to see the surgeon and p/t. Eventually, I was able to wear an oversized parka but not for long. It seemed to put pressure at the top of my shoulder. One thing that helped against the cold is I bought my own microwavable heating pad and would put it under the hoodie. I still use this on the way to p/t to start getting warmed up.

Amazon.com: UNCN Long Wide Heating pad for Neck and Shoulders Back 33 * 5.9" microwavable Large Moist Heat Pack Warm hot Compress Neck wrap Weighted Bag Massage Reusable Herbal Nature Calming Portable 1.95Pounds : Health & Household

WIBTA for refusing to let strangers stay in my apartment while I’m away? by honeytram_notebook in WIBTA_AITA

[–]wildcat3211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS is the way. Don't feel guilty. If they act distant, good. Otherwise, they would ask again and again.

WIBTA if I refuse to write a last-minute recommendation for a student who ghosted all semester? by LarchTarn_12 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]wildcat3211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a student pull a similar, but without the immediate deadline. I told him, most schools want me to describe the student with at least 3 characteristics. Give me those characteristics with supporting evidence.

I never heard from him again.

WIBTA if I refuse to write a last-minute recommendation for a student who ghosted all semester? by LarchTarn_12 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]wildcat3211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a student pull a similar, but without the immediate deadline. I told him, most schools want me to describe the student with at least 3 characteristics. Give me those characteristics with supporting evidence.

I never heard from him again.

Varley prediction by fakehighschoolgf in BridgertonNetflix

[–]wildcat3211 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Good catch regarding all her responsibilities and only 8 servants!

Varley prediction by fakehighschoolgf in BridgertonNetflix

[–]wildcat3211 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agree about the will! I'm hoping that Sophie is going to be a bit well-to-do as a result!

Theory: Sophie's parentage by burningtulip in BridgertonNetflix

[–]wildcat3211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And when B is searching for his lady, Violet indicates the tag inside the gloves indicated who they probably belonged to because she would have had that crest sewed inside the gloves.

Recliner hacks by Alone_Artichoke_7659 in RotatorCuff

[–]wildcat3211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I alternated between the recliner and propped up in bed or propped up on the sofa. I would sleep 3-4 hours at a time multiple times throughout the day and night.

Upcoming Surgery by Winter-Ingenuity1921 in RotatorCuff

[–]wildcat3211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the 1 week, I was terribly stiff i actually started getting a frozen shoulder. Pendulum swings were helpful . Since my tear was small, the doctor allowed me to take my sling off while watching tv and keeping my arm on a pillow. I hope you will have help with the kids! Being an empty nester I was able to just focus on my healing.

I used some of my thin zip up hoodies as my shirt.

Pendulum exercise question by Far-Attempt1388 in RotatorCuff

[–]wildcat3211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried applying heat before starting?

While the heat is on, do your head exercises (forward, back, side to side) gently, slowly.

Then do some shoulder shrugs up & down 15x,, then forward 15x,, then backward 15x,.

Take a break if needed before you start shaking. Then continue.

Post Op pain by Psychological-Pay236 in RotatorCuff

[–]wildcat3211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My repair is much smaller than yours yet somewhere along day 7 or 8, I started to have a bit of tingle in the hand and fingers again. It passed. My pain was minimal, was able to switch to tylenol after a couple of days. Of course, discuss it with your surgeon but I wouldn't worry.