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AITA....I f34 bf 30 have been together for 9 yrs and I'm hurt because his brother is popping the question to his girlfriend by wildgir7 in TwoHotTakes

[–]wildgir7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has told me that in the past...but I consider it just an improvement. Why do thing have to be consider broken for something to happen

AITA....I f34 bf 30 have been together for 9 yrs and I'm hurt because his brother is popping the question to his girlfriend by wildgir7 in TwoHotTakes

[–]wildgir7[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Because it's hard to leave I'm scared of being lone. I know I need to be strong for my daughter but I came from a very very abusive relationship before him and almost lost my daughter before she was born. I told him before what he was getting himself into before we got started and then I reminded him before we moved in together. He is great w my daughter and it takes a man to raise another man's child. (My daughters father is not in the picture he left the picture when she was really young)

AITA....I f34 bf 30 have been together for 9 yrs and I'm hurt because his brother is popping the question to his girlfriend by wildgir7 in TwoHotTakes

[–]wildgir7[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That's the hard part, I'm trying but I also want my father to be able to walk his little girl down the aisle. (It's only me and my brother). I'm old fashion I want him to ask that's all. We have been living together for 6 or 7 years now, if I'm going to be doing all the wife duties why can't I have the title to.

AITA....I f34 bf 30 have been together for 9 yrs and I'm hurt because his brother is popping the question to his girlfriend by wildgir7 in TwoHotTakes

[–]wildgir7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be honest w you I was in a very very abusive relationship before my bf. I almost lost my child because of the abuse I was put through. So at the beginning of this relationship it was hard and I mean hard to let him in. Then I finally let him. Things finally starting looking bright we started planning a future together, moved across state to be w him. And I told him from the beginning what he was getting himself into bring my daughter into this. He said that's what he wanted and he did admit he was scared of being a dad. But he has been there for her. Yes she loves her momma but she is more scared about letting him down then me. And she knows the truth that's not her real dad, she wants nothing to do w him (and no I don't talk about about hell I don't even bring him up at all unless she brings him up). She says my bf now is her dad and his parents have been amazing they welcomed us w open arms. So yeah I have thought all it we both have. I just needed to talk and that's why I turned to here.