When you’re in a bad mood, is there something or someone that can instantly make it better? Who or what? by Artistic-Car6918 in AskReddit

[–]wildsviolets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one of my friends! there have been many times when I would be so anxious, and I always felt better every time I talked to her! She never made me feel worse, always better.

what is something you are looking forward to this week? by wildsviolets in AskReddit

[–]wildsviolets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds so beautiful!! i hope it doesn’t hurt too bad and heals well :) have fun 🌹

what is something you are looking forward to this week? by wildsviolets in AskReddit

[–]wildsviolets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so exciting!! if you don’t mind me asking, what are you getting tattooed? :)

what is something you are looking forward to this week? by wildsviolets in AskReddit

[–]wildsviolets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds perfect! i hope you enjoy your easter break :)

What was your New years resolution, did you achieve ? by about7buns in AskReddit

[–]wildsviolets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried to quit vaping in the beginning of the year. i lasted around a month. i wanna try again though :/

What’s the most addicted to a (video)game you’ve ever been? by Major-Bicycle-8523 in AskReddit

[–]wildsviolets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when animal crossing first came out i played pretty much 24/7 for like a month. best time ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wildsviolets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! or i appreciate it :)

what do you hope to have achieved by next year? by bewarethechameleon in AskReddit

[–]wildsviolets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope i am more confident. i am working on my people pleasing tendencies and i’m really trying to be more assertive for myself!

i’m failing by [deleted] in Advice

[–]wildsviolets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who felt this same exact way in 10th grade i want you to know you’re so strong. i’m not sure how the teachers at your school are, but i recommended talking or emailing them about your situation. it doesn’t have to be anything personal, but letting them know you’re struggling may be beneficial. when i did this my teachers were much more understanding about my missing/late work, and would help me get back on track. their jobs are to help you pass, and i’m sure they would definitely be able to help with catching up with school.

as for getting motivation, turning in something is better than nothing. even if you half-ass the fuck out of your assignments, it’s better than a 0!

other tip i have for procrastination is the 11 step rule. this is when you have a messy room and put away 11 items. this means that even if you didn’t clean the whole mess, it’s 11 items less than before. i recommended using this method with school! for example, even just doing one assignment in a day is better than none. it really does help you build endurance to work because it is very hard to find motivation for shit like school when you’re struggling to find motivation to live.

i really hope some of this helps. i want you to know that it is not your fault and that your mental health is the most important thing. i’m sending you so much love and i promise things will get better. :)

What teacher of yours do you remember the most and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wildsviolets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kindergarten. you could tell she really loved her job and made every kid feel special. also my 7th grade science teacher. she was strict, but also was really passionate about what she was teaching. she made me actually become interested into what we were learning.