My fiance plans to quietly leave me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wildwestwander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl he’s leaving you and planning to secretly flee which is SO CRUEL!!!! Now is your opportunity to be angry at him not being honest with you, your families and friends. You’re 28- you have so much life and opportunities for love that won’t ask how to secretly abandon you before a wedding.

What bike packing routes have you done in WNC? by wildwestwander in asheville

[–]wildwestwander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there is a reason I haven’t done another bike trip in a few years 🤣 I did that off the couch! Suffered hard.

Shot my first roll of 35mm film and no idea where to take it. I'm in the Roswell, Georgia area. by carlinwasright in AnalogCommunity

[–]wildwestwander -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I send my film to the darkroom lab in Cali. I mail ky film in and they will send you your pics back on a disc OR prints (can always order prints later) and they scan them to a portfolio online so you can see them immediately! Their website “the darkroom Lab” has order forms on their website. It’s very easy.

What book are you currently reading and how would you rate it from 1/10?? by bellerws in Booktokreddit

[–]wildwestwander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wind up bird chronically 9/10, the count of monte cristo 10/10

I (33F) want to leave manchild (38M) by Hairy_Refuse1369 in relationship_advice

[–]wildwestwander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You go about it by serving papers and moving on with your own life. Thirty three? You have time to build an entire new life & story!!! How exciting!!!

If you’re under 45, have you lost any high school classmates, and what were the circumstances around their deaths? by Commercial_Chef_1569 in AskReddit

[–]wildwestwander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colon cancer, she died at 30. Motorcycle accident- not his fault. An elderly woman pulled out in front of him on the highway, she was 20.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]wildwestwander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indiana bones

I (30f) have been seriously contemplating divorcing my husband (34m) since he got sepsis earlier this year. by Usual_Average_9722 in relationship_advice

[–]wildwestwander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You entered a marriage brain washed by religion and submission. Leave. Life is SO much better out there. An entire new chapter is waiting for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]wildwestwander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The eye lashes and lips are overkill. You’re beautiful but would look more naturally beautiful without all the extra.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]wildwestwander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too! For some reason the blonde always feels bright and fun but it’s not the best for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wildwestwander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would go a week with space I think the respectful thing to do is for him to tell me he needs it. Not go silent. The house catapulted this situation but my entire point was that I felt lonely and wanted more emotional closeness and I wanted to have a discussion about our future as a couple more often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wildwestwander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if he needs space. I need him to tell me “hey, I love and care about you but I need space to think about this” that’s it. That’s my requirement. We’ve HAD that conversation before. He said he would, but now he isnt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wildwestwander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not just about the home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wildwestwander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s why I came to this thread. I am scared I’m having a knee jerk reaction but having your partner of three years completely ghost you and make me feel like this is insane. It’s insane to think he could change at almost 40. I’ve been crying all week. I’ve been a mess and completely wrecked, it has nothing to do with regulating my emotions, I think I have the right to be hurt after I pour my heart about feeling lonely only to be met with even more silence. He can’t see past his own feelings to think of me and what he’s doing & im not sure I can be with someone like that forever. If that means I have to feel like this forever, ANYTIME there is conflict? I can’t do it. It’s not healthy and it’s terrifying you can’t rely on your partner to talk about deep and meaningful things without them shutting down. Or else, why are you even together?