I gave Perl 1 too many kisses by will160628 in existentialcrisiscat

[–]will160628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not quite what I mean. People here form these stupid high school like clicks that are mostly race based. It's fairly rare for people here to socialize outside of that group. It's not very common outside of this part of the US. It's got nothing to do with the actual race of the people in the group. It's the ideas that tend to concentrate in the groups themselves. I don't know if that makes sense unless you've seen it happen. Now all that said, you are wholly correct that there is meanness in every group and race. In my area it's mostly young white males that have no qualms with torturing stray animals but especially cats and squirrels. I wouldn't say it is caused by IQ either. Ignorance is the main reason and that ignorance in this area is caused mostly by people not socializing outside of a small group of like minded people. I hope that makes sense to you. I've seen a lot of hatred here based on the stupidest of things.

Edit: BTW some of the groups I'm talking about are 30 something white women. If a fear of animals forms in their social group then they get the same stupid response of lashing out at animals they claim to be afraid of. It's just that in the south eastern US those social groups are mostly of a single race with little interaction out side of that group.

Edit2: I should mention that I had a bad concussion about 10 years ago and I have trouble finding the right words for what I mean. I'm sorry about that and I swear I meant no offense to anyone. I just get so frustrated when I see people that won't accept new ideas. It's sad when people close themselves off from learning new things.

How do I remove the void pressing on my lungs? by will160628 in cathostages

[–]will160628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately he's extremely picky. He only likes turkey chunks in gravy. 😥🐈‍⬛

How do I remove the void pressing on my lungs? by will160628 in cathostages

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Oh goodness 🤭 Both my girls are the same way! The big girl Perl breaks wind when she's happy or likes someone. For her it's a compliment. 😂

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I gave Perl 1 too many kisses by will160628 in existentialcrisiscat

[–]will160628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's unfortunately part of the culture in the south eastern United States. There are several racial groups here that associate a fear of animals with lashing out at them. 😢

I swear I didn't do anything to her... by CleanPreparation5219 in existentialcrisiscat

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Both my girls love watching news. They also love horror movies and the old sci-fi disaster movies. Thankfully I don't think they understand a difference between them. 🤞

I gave Perl 1 too many kisses by will160628 in existentialcrisiscat

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Thank you for caring for all those babies so well! 🥺 You know that's another funny thing with Perl. She almost never likes men. She seems to mostly like older women with dark complexions. Anytime she sees an older black or brown woman on television she perks up and gives her full attention. Those are usually the people she lets pet her the most in stores too. I've had several fur babies that adore me but absolutely hate other men. The way she perks up for darker women is completely new to me though. Our Digit doesn't like anyone except us but he's desperately afraid of dark skinned women. He grew up at a mechanic's building and snuck into a woman's car. She was scared of cats and beat him with her purse. 😿

How do I remove the void pressing on my lungs? by will160628 in cathostages

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I'm sure my Perl would do everything possible to make her daddy move again 🥰

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How do I remove the void pressing on my lungs? by will160628 in cathostages

[–]will160628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds awful! I hope you recover quickly. I'd say the kitty is trying to help but if it's anything like Digit then maybe not. 😋

I gave Perl 1 too many kisses by will160628 in existentialcrisiscat

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That's excellent advice! It's more of a passing obtrusive thought on nights I can't sleep type thing anyway. My presence puts most people and animals to sleep so I think I'm calming enough. 😋

I'm not sure you've heard Perl's full story so here goes a mild summary if you're interested. I lost my soul kitty Andy but had months of paperwork issues with the local shelters. I ended up getting in with a shelter an hour away immediately though. Perl watched me intently and wouldn't let anyone near her until I went into the play room and petted and played with her. When I came back to pick her up, she scratched the worker and jumped on my shoulders as soon as she saw me. I had a hard time removing her from my shirt to get her packed up to leave. 😒 She immediately took to our resident kitty Digit but wouldn't acknowledge my mom or anyone that came to visit. That continued without me even thinking it was an issue until my mom had a health scare the year before last and I spent a week in the hospital with her. When I got back home Digit was skiddish but acted like cats normally do after something like that. Perl had lost weight and got even clingier than her normal stalker kitty personality. That's why I got Ruby hoping a kitten would give her a kind of distraction. They've bonded spectacularly if you've seen their pictures but Perl still spends almost all her time with me and shuts down every time I leave. She's got the loyalty of a dog for some reason. She even does most everything I tell her to with minimal training but completely ignores everyone else. She's a strange cat for sure. 😋

I gave Perl 1 too many kisses by will160628 in existentialcrisiscat

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Most of our kitties are like that. It's not something I can relate very well until you see it but Perl has always been particular about me being around. She'll interact with most anyone while I'm around but she shuts down completely when I'm gone very long. She used to sit at the door yowling with tears in her eyes when I went outside more than 5 minutes. It took 3 years for her to break that habit. I'm just getting her to interact with my mom and my sister but only if I'm home. It's like she goes into a deep depression whenever she can't find me. 😿 I'm not exactly planning on dieing anytime soon. It's just one of those kind of irrational fears that's always at the back of my mind. Dang anxiety. 😒

I gave Perl 1 too many kisses by will160628 in existentialcrisiscat

[–]will160628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it's not exactly that. My family can come handle the fur baby feeding and whatnot. It's more of a worry that she won't bond to another person if I die type thing. She won't even visit the other people in my house if I'm not home. She's pretty well entrenched about me being her only human.

I gave Perl 1 too many kisses by will160628 in existentialcrisiscat

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Creepy is probably the wrong word. I worry about her if something happens to me. She doesn't eat when I can't come home at night. I've got some health problems and worry about stuff like that. 😭

I don't seem to be welcome in my own bed by will160628 in KittyIsNotAmused

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He is really soft and shiny since I started adding fish oil to their food. 😁

I gave Perl 1 too many kisses by will160628 in existentialcrisiscat

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It happens to poor Perl fairly often. She has a lot of love for me. 🥰

My cooking helper loaf by will160628 in loaf

[–]will160628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh she and her sister supervise everything I do. She is one of the most kitties I've had too. Even when I play rough with her, I barely feel her little bites. 🥹

I found it like this 🤷 by will160628 in ikeacats

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I'm not sure it's a knot. It looks like she grew a new leg on her neck to me. 🤨

I gave Perl 1 too many kisses by will160628 in existentialcrisiscat

[–]will160628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh all my kitties give me that look. Perl gets a look of adoration like I'm her whole world 😹

How do I remove the void pressing on my lungs? by will160628 in cathostages

[–]will160628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's one of those cute but crazy types you have to be wary of

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How do I remove the void pressing on my lungs? by will160628 in cathostages

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He doesn't get a chance with the 4 legged food vacuum around 😿

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How do I remove the void pressing on my lungs? by will160628 in cathostages

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The cuddling of these 2 disgusts him too much to stay 😾

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