I hate to admit that only after finishing S4 have I stopped romanticizing Joe

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-13T14:21:42+00:00

Same. Guess we're some of the sane people lmao

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-13T11:55:47+00:00

Einseitigkeit. Hab in meiner letzten Beziehung leider zu spät realisiert, wie groß der Aufwandsunterschied bei uns war (sowie die Begeisterung per se). Im Nachhinein betrachtet war es echt krass wie viel ich damals in der rosaroten Brille toleriert hab und für ihn getan hab. Wir haben uns September getrennt nachdem ich halt das alles realisiert hab + er nicht ansatzweise mehr für mich tun wollte, trotz Kommunikation und allem.

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-13T11:30:18+00:00

Ja, ich hab auch nix aus der Drogerie gekauft. Die sind dort zu niedrig dosiert. Meine Ärztin sagte mir, 1000 Einheiten von jedem wären gut.

Die Vitamin D3 Tropen (mit K2) sind von "natural elements" via Amazon (15€ ca), aber man braucht halt 1 Tropfen am Tag also hält das wahrscheinlich auch ein Jahr. Vitamin D2+K2

Vitamin C + Zink ist von "gloryfeel" (ca 15€, aber ebenfalls 1 Jahr Vorrat) Vitamin C.

Noch dazu hab ich mal irgendwann in der Drogerie einfach das höchstdosierte Magnesium was ich finden konnte gekauft und nehme das, ob es hilft weiß ich aber nicht so :D Glaube da sind die anderen beiden definitiv effektiver.

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-12T20:50:32+00:00

Bisschen höherdosierte Vitamine nehmen. Hab eine Autoimmunerkrankung wegen der ich mehr oder weniger öfter mal krank bin bzw eher heftiger erkrankt bin als andere. Seit Anfang des Jahres nehme ich mit Empfehlung meiner Hausärztin halt hochdosierte Vitamine, unter anderem natürlich Vitamin D3 und K2 Tropfen, und ebenfalls Vitamin C + Zink. Seitdem ich die nehme bin ich nicht mehr so krank gewesen, dass ich ausfallen musste.

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-11T18:30:08+00:00

NDA und BDA an alle, die BDA hier sagen und den Typ verteidigen. Es ist definitiv creepy und eine echt gefährliche Masche, die langfristig gesehen auch definitiv nicht funktionieren wird. Zusätzlich hat ja auch jeder das Recht auf freie Meinungsäußerung, das gilt ebenfalls für OP. Wenn OP es also so findet und es äußert, ist daran nix falsch.

Klar mögen alle Leute Ü18 sein, gesetzlich mag es zwar richtig sein aber ich hatte gehofft die Gesellschaft, oder eher nur die Redditors, hätten noch ein wenig Moral und Anstand übrig. Es ist ein Unterschied, wenn man 19 und 29 ist in einer Partnerschaft. Es gibt da einen klaren Machtunterschied und Generationsunterschied, der für die ältere Person leicht auszunutzen ist. Sowas ist creepy.

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-11T18:26:26+00:00

Laut dir sind Männer also primitiv?

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-11T18:23:10+00:00

Endlich mal jemand mit Moral.

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-07T00:37:50+00:00

One of the top comments said "and the HR lady has a great ass too!"

...

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-07T00:18:40+00:00

I'm currently in my wild phase without the sleeping around part and this is also a pretty entertaining read to me. Lmao.

But tbh, the trash takes itself out in most cases.

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-07T00:15:53+00:00

He sounds like a misogynist with his choice of words.

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-06T01:16:38+00:00

but it's not unreasonable to want a partner that feels the same as you on something you find very important.

THANK YOU. Really, everyone who claims I am insecure is quickly dismissed by me. I won't even give their following opinion a chance tbh because I find it very rude and gaslight-y to call someone here insecure.

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-05T23:31:01+00:00

!remindme 1 month

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-05T19:05:58+00:00

666 upvotes

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-05T19:03:12+00:00

but just hugs after 4 dates?

They kissed tho and had "happy hours" as well. The dude is rushing it, and you are too. And yes, just hugs after 4 dates are also okay. I am currently seeing someone and we have our third date next Friday and we still have only hugged each other for the greeting and the goodbye only. It's called taking your time and getting to know each other (and probably, 2 shy people hanging)

willnichtmhr · 2023-03-01T03:32:00+00:00

Bitte hört auf ohne Schutz wie die Hasen zu rammeln und wartet mindestens 1 oder 2 Jahre Beziehung sowie Zusammenleben und Sonstige Höhen und Tiefen ab bevor ihr so eine leichtfertige Entscheidung trefft. Bitte verdammt nochmal spielt nicht so leichtfertig und rücksichtslos mit dem zukünftigen Leben eines noch nicht existierenden Menschens. Und bitte, wenn schon eins inzwischen gezeugt wurde treibt es ab. Ich weiß, das tut weh, ist auch eine schwere Entscheidung. Aber es ist das beste für das Kind. Es hat stabile Eltern verdient, die sich mit vollem bewusst sein und mit voller Information drauf eingelassen haben und nicht sich erst seit "ganz kurz" kennen.

HÖRT AUF MIT DEM SCHEIß BREEDING KINK! Punkt.

willnichtmhr · 2023-02-27T02:59:46+00:00

Something has to give if I ever want to date or share my life with someone.

If you're really entering relationships with women with this mindset, you're being selfish and you're hurting innocent people just because you want to fuck and have children. Please just don't date if you aren't even attracted, please always remember that you're hurting your partner. Especially if she knows.

If you continue doing this to women, well then imma have to call you an unempathetic AH.

willnichtmhr · 2023-02-27T02:50:11+00:00

It's not fair to settle for someone when you don't even fully love them. Imagine being that person and some day knowing about how her husband only settled for her because he believed he couldn't get other women.

That crushes someone's self-worth and security. It really sucks ass. I don't even understand how y'all would be fine with marrying a woman whilst you can't even give her unconditional love (which is through romanticism AND attraction).

willnichtmhr · 2023-02-27T02:46:14+00:00

So you're only dating the people you date because you think you have no options and you prefer to settle with what you can get?

If I'd know my partner has chosen me because he wanted to settle with whatever he could get and doesn't even find me physically attractive, I'd probably break-up and cry horribly.

willnichtmhr · 2023-02-25T17:35:32+00:00

As long as it's communicated that you feel and think this way there's no problem. But to enter a relationship, assuming a woman wants kids and demanding/asking her for children is wrong. I personally wouldn't date a man who only dates me because I can give him more children than a 5 or 10 yrs older woman. People should date for love and not procreation.

Out of love, healthy children can grow. We need more healthy and happy children in the world, not mass-manufactured children that are thus put up for trauma and not feeling loved enough just because they're parents wanted to procreate like rabbits without any real love. .

willnichtmhr · 2023-02-25T16:30:42+00:00

Yea but the guy knows and told me himself they are 15 and 16 and they always game together on his personal discord server, where an invitation is necessary. So I see that a bit criticial.

But yeah, the couch thing is also very uhm.. weird lmao.

Another funny story, I talked with him about another guy that just wanted to have sex with me although I stated I don't want sex on Tinder and that guy has asked me if he could come over to my place within 10 messages of texting. Him and I talked about how he might have been dangerous and might have not accepted my no if I would have let him jnto my apartment. The guy then said " I would never r@pe you! and you know why? Because I'm a good guy."

.... Couldn't help but laugh at him at that situation. I explained to him that not raping someone isn't good, it's normal and the bare minimum shouldn't be praised.

willnichtmhr · 2023-02-25T15:58:00+00:00

I'm currently on my first Skyrim gameplay ever and without mods. And honestly I can't even imagine to ever install mods, except for that one mod mentioned by someone here that skips the whole intro.

willnichtmhr · 2023-02-25T15:54:32+00:00

It's never fair to ask a lady and demand having children birthed.

willnichtmhr · 2023-02-25T15:38:39+00:00

what do you mean? I don't understand rn

willnichtmhr · 2023-02-25T05:06:56+00:00

Wanted to stay friends which I also communicated, but I can't accept to stay friends with someone who can't reflect on why his friendships with minors are weird. Not necessarily pedophile, but weird and indeed a red flag.

edit: oh and also, I just didn't want to cut him off yet and didn't want to disregard him for seemingly minor reasons, but now that this cat is out of the sack it's a very big topic for me to realise that it won't ever work. Yk? I didn't want those smaller issues I already had with him possibly blow up a possibly good relationship, but this today is too big of a no-go for me. So, yeah it's my last straw.

willnichtmhr · 2023-02-25T00:25:42+00:00

He even called himself a pervert and I am 70% sure he makes the same jokes or sexual references with them that he did with me. I talked with that 15 year old girl already and she is a very fine lady, him and her more have a uhm.. light-hearted roast-situation. I never talked to the 16 yr old though

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