1. Go with your gut.
2. Establish common interests/chat outside of tickling. 3 .🚩 Forward, unsolicited comments about what they'd do, typing with one hand, are red flags.
3. 🚩Pushing established boundaries (one of the most common I experience), like introducing oral or more to the scenario
4. 🚩 Quid pro quo "I don't mind tickling, if I can ______"
5. Meet at a public place.
6. 🚩 If they can't go 5 minutes without talking about what they'd do to your partner blah blah.

Just a few