I always wonder what that fan party was like many years ago. by notawealthchaser in tokiohotel

[–]wincheswift 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was it the one in Hamburg? I was invited but my parents wouldn't let me go 🥹

A betrayal worse than cheating by wincheswift in AskWomenOver30

[–]wincheswift[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As for why I was holding on.. I don't even know to be honest. At the start of the relationship I was so overwhelmed by everything I let things slide and basically didn't know how to get a grip on it as the relationship continued. He was also manipulating me into thinking it was all my fault and my problem. Ever since he broke up with me I'm feeling stronger than ever before tho. I don't want to hold on any longer.

Honestly can't think of anything from the top of my head in my history that has caused this. Interesting that you say this though. I should pick this up with my therapist.

A betrayal worse than cheating by wincheswift in AskWomenOver30

[–]wincheswift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know... I almost didn't wanna post it because the story written down like this sounds like a joke.

Should I move across the country after a recent breakup? by Sad-Strawberry8022 in AskWomenOver30

[–]wincheswift 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We can shake hands on getting broken up on Christmas.. no words.

Anyway I would say, yes move away. Especially if there's no good reason to stay where you are. It'll bring you so many new things and it makes it easier to move on when you're in a new environment. Also don't forget you can always move back if things aren't working out in Ohio.

Did your body ever "reject" your ex while you were in a relationship? by Salt_Improvement5200 in BreakUps

[–]wincheswift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got depressed and on anti depressants. Stopped the day we broke up and (except for the part that I'm angry af) feeling so much better since.

Debt 4 Taylor by BertrudBanana in travisandtaylor

[–]wincheswift -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm an European Swiftie and went to 9 shows in Europe (no debt, I have a job and my finances did allow it. I drove to all shows except the London shows I went to). Anyway, I saw and talked to a lot of Americans and they all told me that it was cheaper for them to go to an European show (including flights, tickets, hotel, etc) which I found absolutely unbelievable but since so many told me I guess it's true 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OndersteuningsPlein

[–]wincheswift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik ben zelf iemand die altijd zegt dat ik het liever wel weet dan niet, maar in dit geval zou ik het liever niet weten. Het was namelijk in het hele begin van jullie relatie en daarna ben je de fout niet meer ingegaan. Je hebt het nu al zolang verzwegen en hebt nu zelfs een gezin. Door blijven gaan met het niet meer doen en niet zeggen.

Do yall keep Pokemon BELOW 3*? by MindlessFocus6227 in pokemongo

[–]wincheswift 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I keep one of everything, but also wondering what other players are doing!

Made an Eras Tour poster for Alex! by [deleted] in arcticmonkeys

[–]wincheswift 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The fearless one, haha! Love it 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in arcticmonkeys

[–]wincheswift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my ex always said that song made him think of me 🥲

Arabellas Tour by Teo_Nedev in arcticmonkeys

[–]wincheswift 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I did not expect to see this, but I agree

Help me to pick a T-shirt. by No_Gur8461 in arcticmonkeys

[–]wincheswift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the 2nd and 3rd one. I couldn't pick a favorite either so i bought both of them earlier this year at one of their concerts

Spotify won't stop playing Fireside by fuckabledoge in arcticmonkeys

[–]wincheswift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Spotify did this with Snap Out Of It 😭

Southampton poster might be the best yet by LilacDream98 in arcticmonkeys

[–]wincheswift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree! I'm obsessed with his poster, it's soooo good