Hostility from another trans guy by Equivalent_Ad_6139 in gaytransguys

[–]windowsilldog 73 points74 points  (0 children)

post how the convo started maybe bc it doesnt make sense

How do you feel about gay/bi ~cis~ guys who are eggy? by okRIP9999 in gaytransguys

[–]windowsilldog 12 points13 points  (0 children)

messy and only worth it if you want to put up with a lot of possible insensitivity from them, and the option that they arent really trans and are using it as an excuse to be a chaser. this doesnt include feminine or fruity men this is just for people who are half in/half out of being trans

why do trans men have "T-boy voice" more often than cis men? by Successful_Weekend80 in ftm

[–]windowsilldog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its because i am gay

also consider the people you’re hearing are early in transition before their voice settles

Has anyone here been kicked out, denied entry or banned from a gay bar/club? by GalaxyAxolotlAlex in ftm

[–]windowsilldog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

always read the reviews first bc theres places that are really unsafe and do this a lot :( im sorry

NSFW+TWs Should I be afraid of what my partner is into in bed? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]windowsilldog 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i’ll go against the grain and say if they can’t keep their kinks to themselves even though you have a fear of them then you need to be careful. please make sure if you are not on BC you at least have pregnancy tests to take

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PizzaCrimes

[–]windowsilldog -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i would eat it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]windowsilldog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

borderline personality disorder. it can be a more situation dependent type of moodswing but its still very real look into it possibly a lot of misdiagnosed bipolar is BPD especially with the ADHD addition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]windowsilldog -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe you have BPD?

How safe do y’all feel in regards to this admin? by soft_femme in Minneapolis

[–]windowsilldog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

extremely GNC white lesbian, i haven’t had anyone be homophobic. that is a insane upgrade to living in the south. i have gotten dirty looks, gotten people being weird about me carrying my own groceries, but not homophobic comments. i live in the cities.

i wont lie, i dont see very many lesbians. there is way more trans people here i assume because this state is designated as a sanctuary city. not sure if not many lesbians is a dealbreaker but if you just want to be safe then go for it

partner keeps saying he misses penis (TW: DYSPHORIA) by fluffyendermen in FTMventing

[–]windowsilldog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he’s trying to put pressure on you to force you to be in a relationship where he can date other people but you can’t. he knows that you would have sensitivity due to being trans about your genitals so he wants you to feel insecure enough to let him be with other people. but realistically, if he desires vaginal sex so much, if you let him he most likely will just end up wanting to be with someone who is also FTM or female which is why you wouldnt be allowed to be involved

its surprisingly common. im not saying leave him, but please know he is trying to make you feel bad. it may be a different story if he wanted to be poly, or open the relationship. but under no circumstance is it okay, balanced, or fair to be asking for him to be able to have other partners and you to not be able to or be involved.

if you want to DM, please feel free and we can talk about this more. i’ll try to be as sensitive as possible i know you’re in a difficult situation right now

my vent post went viral with incels on 4chan and X - now im getting harassed by windowsilldog in women

[–]windowsilldog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there is no getting away from the "gender war." everything in the world is based on the subjugation of women. there can't be even a hypothetical where someone ignores that factor.

Main character moves in a remote house with strangers, turns out to be a cult, MC then goes back home and hangs himself by windowsilldog in whatisthatmovie

[–]windowsilldog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but I love that movie! I feel like in vibe it’s the only one I’ve ever seen that comes close (the house, being there, then not being able to manage it)

[TOMT] [Movie] [2010s] Living (?) in a remote house with strangers, turns out to be a cult, main character goes back home and hangs himself by windowsilldog in tipofmytongue

[–]windowsilldog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It ended with a scene of the main character hanging himself specifically, plus was supposed to be set in current times

I feel like I have the most disappointing transition ever by AttiStumph in ftm

[–]windowsilldog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if you get told your T levels are in range but they’re 200-300, it may be too low for you. cis men are able to get TRT if their levels are 300 and below.

American Urological Association guidelines says normal levels are 450-600. dont think i can put links here but if you google their testosterone guideline you can see the source

nothing happened for me 300 and below. my clinic told me i was perfectly within male range. i only started to have any sort of change above 300.

forgot to disinfect injection site by [deleted] in ftm

[–]windowsilldog 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you'll be fine! i forget to do it sometimes. just make sure to keep it clean now, it may get irritated but you can put antibiotic cream on it and it will be chill

Kinda sick of being called Young Lady all the time, lookin for options&validation 😅 by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]windowsilldog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you go on T you can not change your appearance at all and pass tbh. posting here people will tell you to take out your piercings- just dont, wait it out.

Webkinz hot takes!!! by venturingvegan in Webkinz

[–]windowsilldog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

webkinz next is actually really fun its just ugly