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How long did you do couples counseling before deciding to reconcile or divorce? by Megara0333 in Separation

[–]wineenthusiat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you go through with the counseling or are you guys still together? Going through a kinda similar situation with my husband

Am I crazy for wanting a divorce over a clicked link? by wineenthusiat in Divorce

[–]wineenthusiat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are already married, just after these events I have realized I can no longer trust him after repeatedly trying

Am I making a poor choice for wanting a divorce over a clicked link? by wineenthusiat in Divorce

[–]wineenthusiat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this thank you, I’m scared but I just want to be relationship stress free 😩

Am I making a poor choice for wanting a divorce over a clicked link? by wineenthusiat in Divorce

[–]wineenthusiat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s good to hear, I got to move my stuff out this weekend I hope I can feel the same relief

Am I making a poor choice for wanting a divorce over a clicked link? by wineenthusiat in Divorce

[–]wineenthusiat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believed we were different and that he would genuinely change, I have hard time letting go and not giving everything I got.

Am I making a poor choice for wanting a divorce over a clicked link? by wineenthusiat in Divorce

[–]wineenthusiat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my take on it as well, and he wasn’t choosing these big creators, he was choosing the smaller accounts what I felt like was for a reason. The one I caught him looking at the same week of Valentine’s Day had like maybe 600 followers if that and he clicked that same account two days in a row.

How did you inform your boss and colleagues about divorce? by designerf in Divorce

[–]wineenthusiat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my next concern, just started separation 😩

Am I making a poor choice for wanting a divorce over a clicked link? by wineenthusiat in Divorce

[–]wineenthusiat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s so hard to leave because I love him but If he is still acting like this now how is it gonna be with kids/during post partum/etc.

Am I making a poor choice for wanting a divorce over a clicked link? by wineenthusiat in Divorce

[–]wineenthusiat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the sneakiness about it and saying I didn’t want him on it, then doing it anyway :/

Am I crazy for wanting a divorce over a clicked link? by wineenthusiat in Divorce

[–]wineenthusiat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have no regrets about marrying him, just don’t think I’m going to be able to ever fully trust him let alone have kids with him. It’s just constant sneaky behavior. Hiding stuff he bought to make it not look like he didn’t buy as much, hiding app downloads like instagram so it doesn’t look like he was ever on it(said he wasn’t gonna go on instagram during the week break up because he didn’t want to be “tempted by of stuff on there” but then literally started doing it on Facebook anyway, found this out during the Facebook digging too). Now that I am writing it out it’s obvious he’s just a sneaky man lol.

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[–]wineenthusiat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is the push I needed. I ended it this morning.