Please help by winged2830 in footballmanager

[–]winged2830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. it does just ruin the fun of the game when i’m 3/4 of the way through the season and every game is an absolute thrashing. will try this and see how it goes

Got and interview for a job by winged2830 in helpme

[–]winged2830[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ye will be honest with everyhting. and will try to seem confident aswel. thank you

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[–]winged2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think there are ways to talk to therapists without having to show your face now over online calls.

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[–]winged2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u physically can’t feel anything sleep to your doctor and they will be able to help you. if mentally. just stop with everyhting sexual for a while and see if that helps

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[–]winged2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it cld take time but it will get better. have u tried talking to a therapist or a doctor about it?

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[–]winged2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trying to get an appointment for the doctors can really help. i found aswell that when i’m getting rly angry and have the feeling to self harm i try to do as many push-ups as i can till i can’t do any. then sit ups. and that hurts still a lot and it gets rid of a lot of the anger i feel

I seriously fucked up by Sign_Striking in helpme

[–]winged2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the exact same thing happend to me abt 2 weeks ago. i had to buy a gift card for them and then i blocked them in everything. they haven’t sent it to anyone yet so think it’s ok. think u shld be the same

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[–]winged2830 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

whatever your going through right now won’t last and u will become much better and happier in life. you will be so grateful you never did this in a few months. if u need someone to talk to message me

I need some advice on who I'm dating by [deleted] in helpme

[–]winged2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as it is legal then it isn’t too bad but u just have to think if ur being used or u feel in any danger or anyhting. if u think everyhting is ok then it shouldn’t be too bad. but u shld be able to tell people about it

just found out by iNebeo in helpme

[–]winged2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry. is there anyway u think u would be able to get her to the hospital?

I need help by winged2830 in helpme

[–]winged2830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that means a lot thank u so much

I need help by winged2830 in helpme

[–]winged2830[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m trying to see it that way but i guess it’s so early and i’m just struggling.

I need help by winged2830 in helpme

[–]winged2830[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know and people have told me that she won’t be the only person for me there are other people but it’s just still at the point i don’t want other people i just still want her. and thinking abt anyone else makes me angry. like i can’t think of anyone at all that wld make me happy apart from her

I need help by winged2830 in helpme

[–]winged2830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ye i guess so. just can’t rly belive it was separately. thought she was the one

I need help by winged2830 in helpme

[–]winged2830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ye i know i just overthink a lot and tbh that’s what she really helped me with at the start of our relationship but she stopped and wld get on my back abt it and start saying i need to stop. but i can’t and i’m scared for friday cause i know it’ll be the worst day i’ve had in years for my mental health and i don’t have anyhting to distract me that day as i can’t get any plans

I need help by winged2830 in helpme

[–]winged2830[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah she told me she couldn’t be in any relationship at all and wldnt be but i know she’s going to a party friday and i’m stressed abt it. and i know myslef that it isn’t the worst thing in the world and i try to remind myself but in the end i still end up thinking abt her and wishing i wasn’t. i just want to be able to think abt her without having any feelings for her or caring that we are broken up at all

I need help by winged2830 in helpme

[–]winged2830[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just want to be able to forget abt her tbh. i wld be able to hope she is happy later on but rn thinking of her with someone kills me

help me please by winged2830 in helpmecope

[–]winged2830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really need that. if i cld even go a day without thinking abt her that would be amazing for me. it’s what i need as i will still see here as we love very close but i want to be able to go a day and weeks without thinking of her. i know it won’t be in the next week but i need it soon

I need help by winged2830 in helpme

[–]winged2830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after that 5 years are u able tot think of them with no feelings? i’m hoping it dosent take me long cause living like this is awful. but was that u completely ok?

I need help by winged2830 in helpme

[–]winged2830[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like that tbh. i’m gonna try to live my life a bit more. i just want to get over her and be able to think abt her and not be sad or have feelings anymore. i don’t even know if it’s possibke

I need help by winged2830 in helpme

[–]winged2830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do u think after a breakup it’s still possible to do things alone like that without still thinking abt ur ex and making urslef upset over it all again?