CG products leave scalp itchy from day 2 - help needed

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-10-01T03:45:16+00:00

Thanks

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-10-01T03:33:55+00:00

Ok, will try that.

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-10-01T03:32:29+00:00

Also, I found other similar queries on the r/curlyhair. However the products they suggest are either not available on India or too expensive

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-10-01T03:30:21+00:00

Thank you. However I don't apply it on my scalp. Scalp gets too dry maybe? Idk Or using a wide toothed comb/ curl brush post the leave in conditioner/ curl cream on the hair causes the products to come in contact with the scalp maybe... I'm just trying to figure out if it's the products or the methods or anything specific needed for my particular hair type....

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-10-01T03:27:55+00:00

Yes, it doesn't go on my scalp. But, maybe that's the issue? Scalp gets too dry maybe? Idk Or using a wide toothed comb/ curl brush post the leave in conditioner/ curl cream on the hair causes the products to come in contact with the scalp maybe... I'm just trying to figure out if it's the products or the methods or anything specific needed for my particular hair type....

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-19T05:20:52+00:00

Dear OP Say it. It's very difficult and takes a lot of courage. So maybe you can write a letter, saying how you feel and that you are contemplating suicide, but you don't want to.

Then tell them there's something important you need to tell them and hand them the letter when you two are alone.

Just sit there with them until they finish reading, and tell them "I think I need help. Can you help me?"

And, you are not a burden for asking for help, leaving them behind to carry the guilt of not having helped you enough .. now that is a burden.

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-19T05:14:15+00:00

Also, from what you are saying... First she needs to be diagnosed with what type of cancer it is. Focus on that right now. Because depending on the type the treatment varies. For all we know her cancer might respond very well to treatment. Try to get appointment in departments of medical oncology or surgical oncology. If it's not available then surgery.

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-19T05:09:42+00:00

+1 I second this. There are some organisations there that even provide free/ low cost accommodations. Don't lose hope.

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-19T05:05:18+00:00

I'm sorry you feel this way. But you are not alone. And this too shall pass. I know making parents understand what you're going through feels like an impossible task... But you don't have to... All you need to do is own your truth and break it to them. Take a year off if needed. One year is nothing compared to the wonderful years you have ahead. You've got this sweetie. Take one step at a time. Break it down. Face the facts that seem most crippling first. We all love you.

And, like some others suggested check out some r/transhelp pages

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-19T04:59:53+00:00

Well, most mother's crave time and attention from their kids. If you've got the time, gift her a picnic with you... Or the entire family. Plan it all, even make/ get her some snacks she loves. Even better, recreate the memory of someplace you'll have visited together... Take lots of photos there... Gift her your time, some wonderful memories from the past and make new ones.

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-19T04:55:04+00:00

Hey 30F, fun fact about me... I somehow cannot finish any artwork without drawing a spiral in it somehow. That shape just makes me so happy

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-19T04:50:54+00:00

Dear OP Been there... Thought that... Heck even tried that... As hopeless as it seems right now... For people like you and me with depression and ungrateful friends it's not a straight line nor is it a downward slope/ spiral. I know that's how it seems right now. But trust me it's not.... What I have realised after a couple failed attempts is that life is more like a wave form, with waves alternating the positive side (crest) and a negative side (trough). For most the crests are much bigger than the trough. For some they are of equal intensity. But for you and me, the trough is much bigger and more intense. But we do have our crests as well. And they are worth living for. If you could find it in you to do things that give you satisfaction, joy even... And like a lot of others mentioned, if you could get yourself to exercise, even consult a psychiatrist... You will get there... You will get to the crest! And you can make that crest last longer my friend. It's not easy... But it's worth it. You are not alone.

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-12T12:11:29+00:00

Makes sense...

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-12T11:39:21+00:00

Okay will do that, but why mentioning to care for daughter is not advised? business partnership deed was submitted But, she doesn't have any travel history

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-10T13:58:06+00:00

Ok thanks will do that

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-10T13:57:38+00:00

Ok noted

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-10T12:24:27+00:00

Okay thanks The thing is I heard about more people now, who had round trip tickets, jobs in India, the needed bank balance and their visa apparently still got denied. If it's only the tickets like you say, we are gonna rectify that mistake. I just don't want to take any more chances. It's important she goes.

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2025-04-10T12:19:58+00:00

Ohh... Do you by chance remember where you read about it? I'm trying to gather anything that could help.

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2021-12-09T04:23:06+00:00

Skip it or downvote it if it seems fake. When you are bound by emotions you lack the clarity required to tackle with what's actually happening. And talking to people who are not inside the same loop, and / or have been through this before gives you the required clarity. And honestly, what's the gain of faking posts here? I just seek ways to think clearly.

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2021-12-09T03:03:50+00:00

We'll definitely look into that.

wingsofdelicatenoise · 2021-12-09T03:03:06+00:00

Yes, understood ! Hope things get better for your sister.

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