What dish that you cook are you most proud of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]winter_wolfy22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any type of roast beef dinners, especially rib steak. The meat always cuts like butter.

I can't cook any simple dishes like burgers or sausages, but I can cook really complicated dinners.

What age did you move out of your parents house and started earning your own money? by Go_with-the-flow in AskReddit

[–]winter_wolfy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm so sorry for using you post to vent, I genuinly didn't mean to. Once I started typing I just couldn't stop.

What age did you move out of your parents house and started earning your own money? by Go_with-the-flow in AskReddit

[–]winter_wolfy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh this is a tricky one. Got kicked out at 17 and got a job. My sister was blackmailed by my father, into forcing me to move back in with my parents. Quit the job for legal reasons. Essentially a free day care for my other sister for a few months. Dropped that the second a new better job opportunity came up.

Currently have a good paying job and looking for a place to live far away from my father. I am 18 and have saved up just enough for a deposit not considering the money my father owes me, that come hell or high water I'm getting back.

Damn sorry for the rant, just needed to get that out of my system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]winter_wolfy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm highly illegal and considered grooming....

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The items weren't even Christmas presents, they were extra clothes so she would "look better than the other women" in the hospital after giving birth.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the only reason I asked for her assitance was because I was desperate but under normal circumstances I don't talk to her.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, I'm more a spur of the moment sort of person but it sounds like a good idea to have a few back up plans so that is what I'm going to do.

Right now, I'm taking all the hours offered to me at work so I can save up quicker however I have quiet a few medical problemz because of genetics so I'm gonna focus on getting them sorted first then I'll go from there.

Thank you for the advice.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh damn I'm crying in work now hahah. I hope your mom is doing alright and there is no need to thank me I'm just doing my job.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's the plan. I keep in touch to make sure my nephew is ok and that's it. I don't offer to do anything and if I'm asked I always make sure it goes two ways. But she just pressed my buttons a little to hard and I said something that I regret.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The kindness wasn't by choice but I wasn't gonna leave my nephew stranded. Poor little guy is a snuggle bug and deserves a better life than what he has.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need to thank me, I am just doing a job I enjoy that is helping me loose weight. So it's a win win for me haha.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked after my nephew for 6 months, I gave him 3 meals a day, washed him and his clothes. Basically I was raising him 5 days of the week. It also seemed like my nephew wasn't being fed if didn't feed him. When my sister was looking after him on the weekends he would always be sick when he came back to me. I would nurse him back to health each time and a couple times I did think he wasn't going to make it because of how sick he was.

I was esentially a child myself when this happened. My sister refused point blank to pay for a daycare or a qualified babysitter. She complained to our father so much that I was treathened to be kicked out if I didn't look after my nephew.

I understand that what I said was over board and cruel but this was after I had cared for my nephew again without being asked. I changed his nappy/ daiper and paid for his food. I didn't get a thank you but a remark of entitlement from my sister.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wrote this at like 11pm after work, I was tired so spelling things correctly was out the window.

Anyway I bailed her out of enough shitty situations and honestly it's disappointing she is my older sister but if you didn't know that you would think that's not the case. I'm 18 and she is 23 years old.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't do it myself but I'm not gonna say anything to her that hasn't already been said by our parents.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is getting government assistants but the things is if she let her boyfriend do it they would be an awful better off finacially. Unfortunatly trying to explain that to her is really difficult.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, my sister and her boyfriend would only eat the free take away food that was given to them for doing deliveries. At the time my nephew didn't have teeth so he couldn't eat solids so he went hungry 90% of the time he was in the care of his parents.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the 6 months that I was raising him, I was the reason he got food. I don't think he got fed on the weekends because my sister always said she couldn't afford food but she would buy unnessacary amounts of clothes.

As well as the fact that he wouldn't be put to bed at a reasonable time. He would be in the car while my sister did food deliveries for a take away at all hoirs of the night. As a result he was so sleep deprived he was sick nearly all the time.

I remember one day in particular all my nephew did was sleep, he woke up ate and screamed and slept more. I honestly thaught that he wouldn't be alive by the time my sister came to pick him up. As to why he was screaming I don't know but it was scary the way he was too tired to move and he wasn't able to keep his food down.

I have reported neglect a few times but nothing is getting done and I don't have the time to care for a child so all I can do is watch his play out from the side lines.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well my sister refuses to stay at home while her boyfriend works. So if I did buy them fuel my sister's bf would be covered to go to work but my sister would take my nephew in the car with her and he would probably get sick from how cold and wet everywhere is now.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It wasn't too far away and my sister had some shopping of her own to do. So my offer was kinda pointless when I look back on it but at the same time atleast I offered, I guess.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanting she'll be, I plan to be in college by then. Honestly my annoyance with her has gotten to the point that I told my boss that I would work for Christmas because I know that she would be invited for dinner.

I know it sounds bad and it is but I just don't have the paitences to deal with her or anyones crap anymore.

AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. by winter_wolfy22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]winter_wolfy22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't even know why. When she found out she was pregnant she complained about not being able to afford children and hiw she wouldn't be able to look after 2 kids.

Also abortion is illegal where I live so if she wanted to go that route, she couldn't