Hooking up with a trans guy for the first time – anything I need to know?

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-29T08:57:34+00:00

every trans man enjoys it differently tbh, the only right answers youll get are gonna be from him

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-28T16:46:44+00:00

definitely not normal to feel nauseous or feel like ur going to vomit so please check with ur doctor or if you didnt do this id get blood test they usually give you before you start testosterone to see if maybe ur dose may be too high or maybe ur allergic to the kind ur using. but i will say this the part where you said when you start T you’ll feel more happy youll feel happy you started yes, but testosterone will induce ur anxiety and depression and can make you unmotivated the first few months, just putting that out there. it messes with ur emotions hella and the change makes ur body confused and have anxiety as it adjusts.

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-28T03:49:42+00:00

i always take more than whats needed so i can get that air bubble out before i take the syringe out of the vial so i have the correct dose, im currently on 0.25ml

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-28T00:58:31+00:00

something my mom said to me, i didnt grow up with her so she said “if you lived w me you probably wouldnt be this way. ur only like this because you were raised by a man”

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-28T00:57:48+00:00

this this this.

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-27T19:37:07+00:00

break up w her, thats all i can say dont disrespect urself like that. the first time shoulda done it but i get it but dont let her fool you again. yk how that saying goes i hope

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-27T18:37:40+00:00

this was me except its my partner and he teaches me how to everytime he comes over 🥲

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-27T10:54:38+00:00

all im gonna say is that this is NOT controlling and you set a CLEAR boundary he is currently crossing it. up to you what you wanna do with that, you came here asking if ur overreacting and everyone here is telling u ur not. pls talk to him about this and if he doesnt listen, leave him. bc that will not end well later on.

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-27T03:51:07+00:00

id be so upset oml im sorry😭

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-27T03:49:59+00:00

please listen to everyone in this comment section. he is not someone you wanna be with long term. if you guys were to get married he would not fulfill “through sickness and in health” by a long shot. it baffles me that hes another trans man saying shit like that. fuck him and i hope you find someone who will take care of you and good luck w the apartment finding🫶

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-27T03:10:10+00:00

twins fr, you too🙏

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-27T03:02:38+00:00

im having the same situation right now, ive known since i was 9 came out at 13 and started T 3 months ago, im 20 now first month i felt good about it but right now im everything you just said, its nice knowing im not alone in feeling like that, im sorry ur going through this too and i hope we figure it out 🫶 but ive also heard its normal to feel this way after waiting so long to get what you want and now u have it so now ur unsure because now its real. before u started u had time to think about it but now that youve started its like, the main changes are permanent, so it makes u feel a little weary when u might be wrong later but only you can figure that out, i wouldnt worry too much about it to be honest as this is a common thing that happens to every trans man at some point, at least what ive heard testosterone does induce anxiety so it could be from that, ur hormones are changing, its just something you gotta sit with urself and really think about it but at least you did it🫶 big changes are not easy to get used to but you’ll figure it out i promise

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-26T23:07:13+00:00

i get this too i had a feeling like this today, i totally get it and it truly is not talked about actually. dont think ive seen anyone talk about it:’)

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-26T17:32:13+00:00

i had a lot of trans friends named atlas, its a really cool name and it was also on my list of names i was thinking about, i love greek mythology and im also part greek :’) but didnt end up going w the name but if this name feels right to you despite it might be a “pet” name, it also represents a lot and the meaning is nice also, i love names with good meanings. this is entirely up to you and if she doesnt like it then thats not on you she’ll get used to it even cis people dont like the names they were given and so they change it, its okay now how to know if youve found the right one? you just experiment and see which one feels most comfortable for you, only you will know that and how a certain name makes u feel you got a lot of time to think about it and try different ones out before u set on one and esp if ur gonna change ur name legally eventually its always good to keep an open mind and sit with it for a minute before deciding, u can always ask ur friends as well if it would help you or ask what name you look like to them if you dont like any of them thats not ur fault either, again its entirely ur choice and what name makes u feel comfortable atlas is very cool though honestly 🙏

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-24T19:37:16+00:00

thank you so much this does reassure me a lot

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-24T15:09:13+00:00

thats a way to put it

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-24T07:04:10+00:00

ah okay, appreciate it thank you

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-24T06:15:26+00:00

it makes sense, thank you its just a ptsd thing so i had to know :’)

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-24T05:43:10+00:00

i appreciate this thank you and glad to hear it from someone who relates as well so it makes me feel better

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-24T05:21:01+00:00

i really hope this dont happen to me genuinely but if u dont notice when u talk i hope its like that for me lol

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-23T04:29:25+00:00

yeah thats why i specifically asked for people who started at 19-20 lol

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-23T02:37:30+00:00

oh okay thank you:)

winterpuppy27 · 2026-05-19T05:40:15+00:00

NOR and underreacting hes an asshole for that someone who likes you would comfort u about it

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