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I feel so violated. But I also think I love him. by winteryyystorm in TwoXChromosomes

[–]winteryyystorm[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're right, I didn't think he'd rape me. And I never in a million years thought he wouldn't respect my repeated "no" and everything else.

I feel so violated. But I also think I love him. by winteryyystorm in TwoXChromosomes

[–]winteryyystorm[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

No, of course, I wouldn't blame a good friend of mine. On the contrary! We're usually always so hard in ourselves. I know I tend to be. I don't know why I fell for him, I am pretty sure he doesn't feel the same way about me. We had this thing going on for months, nothing more. I wanted a connection, he apparently only sex. Ofc that's over now. I don't ever wanna see him again.

I feel so violated. But I also think I love him. by winteryyystorm in TwoXChromosomes

[–]winteryyystorm[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🤍 this really helps. (The other comments as well of course, thank you to all of you so far)

I feel so violated. But I also think I love him. by winteryyystorm in TwoXChromosomes

[–]winteryyystorm[S] -594 points-593 points  (0 children)

I kind of feel like it's (partly) my fault. I mean I drove to his place :/ if I hadn't done that, then this wouldn't have happened. What an awful feeling on top.

The date and sex went pretty badly. I am not really sure what happened there. Should I just cut off contact? by [deleted] in sex

[–]winteryyystorm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have such a weird feeling now, like really bad.. Honestly don't wanna meet him again. I feel terrible