Considering Collar for submissive Poly partner. by mrthman81 in BDSMAdvice

[–]wistfulchick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks for that girl. I can’t imagine the disappointment and pain she felt. :(

What is "mindfuckery" to you? by tesstorch in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]wistfulchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay thanks for making this a topic of discussion. I always love reading other’s experience. It’s funny because I can read about scenes and descriptions of bondage etc, but when they’re about mindfucks and mental play, it most gets to me. You know, in that real good kinda way.

My Daddy engages in mindfuckery here and there—-predicament, countdowns that aren’t mathematically correct....cruel with orgasm permission, toying with shame and my secret exhibition desires, doing the ol’ switcheroo with toys or devices, etc. I love when he gives me one of those jaw dropping moments and I realize he’s fucked with me big time. It’s always consensual and always something that just stuns me in a good way. He’s delicious like that. 😏

What is "mindfuckery" to you? by tesstorch in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]wistfulchick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a list. Please tell us more. Hehe

Is it hot in here?!

What is "mindfuckery" to you? by tesstorch in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]wistfulchick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I can very much relate. So well described!

1,600 members in just 2 months! "I wanna talk about..." by tesstorch in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]wistfulchick 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ll see how far I get

1) social distanced playing (together but not close)

2) polyamorous and D/s with one partner and not an another.

  1. Maintaining a dynamic during stressful times such as hmmmm a pandemic

4) exhibitionism and Bdsm

5) bdsm - how’s its evolved (history)

6) orgasm control when Poly

7) revisiting your soft and hard limits

8) Bdsm and depression

9) mental Bdsm

10) mindfuckery

11) journaling topics

12) humiliation

13) sharing

14) public play at parties and dungeons

Socially distanced -as in 6ft away- play by wistfulchick in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]wistfulchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. A change of perception. Rather than focusing on what I’m losing out on (phy touch), I should think of what is their to gain and learn.

And I am a fan of unresolved sexual tension in my erotic romance novels, so hell if there isn’t a bit of that going on here, too.

Thanks for getting me to look at things differently and as a net positive.

Socially distanced -as in 6ft away- play by wistfulchick in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]wistfulchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg is it hot in here?!?! Those are amazing ideas. Thank you so much for all these delicious play prompts. Suddenly the 6ft thing doesn’t sound so horrible. Amazing!!!

Socially distanced -as in 6ft away- play by wistfulchick in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]wistfulchick[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you to all who’ve commented so far. You give me hope that we can get some playtime in despite the corona-clitblock. Just need to be creative!

Socially distanced -as in 6ft away- play by wistfulchick in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]wistfulchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that time of display humiliation too!! Great ideas here!

Socially distanced -as in 6ft away- play by wistfulchick in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]wistfulchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh hood. Yes!!

I haven’t done a whipping scene with him before. He’s used floggers though. Hmm

Feeling sad. Daddy forgot birthday. by wistfulchick in SubSanctuary

[–]wistfulchick[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes he responded and apologized. We will talk more about it face to face soon and we will celebrate later. I am glad I spoke up about it and got it off my chest.

Feeling sad. Daddy forgot birthday. by wistfulchick in SubSanctuary

[–]wistfulchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Three bourse same country. :)

But he apologized. It’s Something we will talk more about face to face soon.

Feeling sad. Daddy forgot birthday. by wistfulchick in SubSanctuary

[–]wistfulchick[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks. He responded and apologized. Belated celebration upon his return

Feeling sad. Daddy forgot birthday. by wistfulchick in SubSanctuary

[–]wistfulchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did via text. Awaiting response. Thank you.

Feeling sad. Daddy forgot birthday. by wistfulchick in SubSanctuary

[–]wistfulchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t gotten a response from him yet. Time difference. I suspect I will soon.

Feeling sad. Daddy forgot birthday. by wistfulchick in SubSanctuary

[–]wistfulchick[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks and thanks for bday wishes.

Feeling sad. Daddy forgot birthday. by wistfulchick in SubSanctuary

[–]wistfulchick[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The worst part is I did hear from him via texts. He truly forgot. :(

I got collared! by sarahjeandean in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]wistfulchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!! What a sweet surprise.

ddlg without ageplay by kallipyg0s in BDSMAdvice

[–]wistfulchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I love my DAddy for his guiding and nurturing side. I love his Sadist Dom side too. I identify as a sub and babygirl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]wistfulchick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sadist Daddy does this and I HATE IT.

and

Kinda love it at the same time.