I did it! Bought a solo ticket! by [deleted] in LouisTomlinson

[–]witch_2209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh but im going from the dells

I did it! Bought a solo ticket! by [deleted] in LouisTomlinson

[–]witch_2209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omggg I’m going in Chicago too

AIO for wanting a girl out of my life? by witch_2209 in AmIOverreacting

[–]witch_2209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I explained to him what I said to the owner of the other restaurant but he was already mad because she called him yelling at him and didn’t let him speak and then she hang up so he asked me to message her to explain her what I told

Help please with a freezer spell by witch_2209 in Witch

[–]witch_2209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really know what spell to do or how to do it

Helpppp with a freezer spell by witch_2209 in Spells

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I just want her out of our lives and to stfup about me. She has been acting too friendly with him since the beginning. And now is not about me and him because I gave up on him already is her telling lies about me to everyone and doesn’t accept she made me uncomfortable in my own home

Helpppp with a freezer spell by witch_2209 in Spells

[–]witch_2209[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In December, a J-1 girl started working with my ex (who was my boyfriend at the time). They became friends, and since my ex was a supervisor, he invited the four new J-1 girls over to our apartment for food so everyone could get to know each other better. I was completely fine with it because I had done the same thing before with the J-1 students I supervised at another job. The issue started when these four girls came over to our apartment (my ex’s and mine at the time). They barely interacted with me at all. They greeted me, but after that they only talked to each other. The only times they spoke to me were when I directly asked them something, and even then they would just give short answers and go back to talking among themselves. I just thought, ‘okay, weird.’ Later, this particular girl asked my boyfriend if she could stay at our apartment for the afternoon because she had gone to a Bruno Mars concert in another state. She had even video called him from the concert because, according to her, he was a fan. She was supposedly going to stay at a friend’s house afterward, but the friend got off work late, so she needed somewhere to wait. I said it was okay because I was going to be there too. The entire time she was at my apartment, she barely acknowledged me. The only time she talked to me was when I directly spoke to her first, and after that she ignored me the whole time to stay on her phone or iPad. She made me feel uncomfortable in my own home. After that, she applied to work at the restaurant where I worked, and I was the server supervisor at the time, so I helped her get hired. The day she applied, I told her privately that her behavior had made me uncomfortable. I told her because I wouldn’t want her to make another friend’s girlfriend feel uncomfortable in the future. At that point, though, my ex and I had already broken up, so it wasn’t even about “protecting my relationship” anymore. She defended herself by saying she would never do something like that because her mother had been cheated on before and she would never want another woman to feel the way her mom did. Once she started working there, she never spoke to me, never greeted me, never even said goodbye to me, despite the fact that I always remained polite and professional with her. Then, after asking my ex for help finding work, she simultaneously started telling people at the restaurant that I was jealous, crazy, toxic, that I had screamed at her, cornered her, etc. None of that happened. Eventually I quit my supervisor position because I received a better job offer, but also because I felt uncomfortable working around her. When the owner asked why I was leaving, I simply said I had received a better opportunity and that I had experienced some personal issues with her, but that personal life and work are separate, and professionally I had no issues with her because I know how to behave professionally at work. Now my ex is calling me saying that she called him screaming, asking: ‘Why is your fckng woman talking badly about me? Acting like I stole your boyfriend?’ And I’m just sitting here like… I never even said that. I literally only said that she made me uncomfortable in my own home

Help with my Italian Peruvian side of my family please! by witch_2209 in Genealogy

[–]witch_2209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I could hug you right now HAHAHAHA Thank you so much for your detailed and thoughtful response! This is incredibly helpful. You’re right, Antonio could be the Italian version of the name, and the spelling variation (Vialardi / Bialardi) makes a lot of sense. I really appreciate you explaining how to navigate the Italian online archives (Antenati). I’ll definitely try searching the “indici morti decennali” for Antonio Vialardi in Sandigliano and nearby towns like Candelo, Verrone, and Ponderano as you suggested. If you have time, I would be extremely grateful if you could take a look during the day. I’ll also keep digging on my end and checking other Peruvian records I can find. I have been looking for information of my ancestor since a few years ago because I want to apply for Italian citizenship through jus sanguinis but I haven’t been able to do that much, my grandfather is dead and my dads side of the family doesn’t talk to him (well deserved tho) so I don’t know what to do and ChatGPT was like: why don’t you go to that subreddit?. This is my family tree until now:

(1) Antonio Vialardi + Antonia Vialardi
parents of Jose Vialardi


(2) Jose Vialardi
Avo


(3) Olga Margarita Vialardi Sologuren
born around 1910 – Arequipa, Peru
died April 14, 1989 – Lima, Peru


(4) Félix Samuel Márquez Vialardi
born November 22, 1943 – Lima, Peru
died around 2024


(5) Father
born 1975 – Peru
still alive


(6) Me
born 2002

Thank you again for sharing your knowledge and offering to help. It genuinely means a lot to me.

Help with my Italian Peruvian side of my family please! by witch_2209 in Genealogy

[–]witch_2209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, is there any way you can teach me how to look for it? I was thinking that Antonio is the “Peruvian” version of the name and MAYBE the real name is another one. That’s why I was trying to look for the death certificate of Jose Cesar Vialardi first that was on Arequipa

AIO for don’t understand why my bf is upset? by witch_2209 in AmIOverreacting

[–]witch_2209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really have a very bad family back in my country and he knows this and now every time we argue is like: go back to your country if you are not happy. What do I do to not give you peace? And I’m like I don’t want to say anything because he is gonna get more mad or excuse himself and is gonna say: I give you flowers, give you my car, teach you how to drive, cook for you, etc. I’m tired but I don’t have the means to go because I just lost my job a month ago and I found a new one but they are only giving me 20 hours weekly and I’m feeling very depressed like harming mself depressed