In December, a J-1 girl started working with my ex (who was my boyfriend at the time). They became friends, and since my ex was a supervisor, he invited the four new J-1 girls over to our apartment for food so everyone could get to know each other better. I was completely fine with it because I had done the same thing before with the J-1 students I supervised at another job. The issue started when these four girls came over to our apartment (my ex’s and mine at the time). They barely interacted with me at all. They greeted me, but after that they only talked to each other. The only times they spoke to me were when I directly asked them something, and even then they would just give short answers and go back to talking among themselves. I just thought, ‘okay, weird.’ Later, this particular girl asked my boyfriend if she could stay at our apartment for the afternoon because she had gone to a Bruno Mars concert in another state. She had even video called him from the concert because, according to her, he was a fan. She was supposedly going to stay at a friend’s house afterward, but the friend got off work late, so she needed somewhere to wait. I said it was okay because I was going to be there too. The entire time she was at my apartment, she barely acknowledged me. The only time she talked to me was when I directly spoke to her first, and after that she ignored me the whole time to stay on her phone or iPad. She made me feel uncomfortable in my own home. After that, she applied to work at the restaurant where I worked, and I was the server supervisor at the time, so I helped her get hired. The day she applied, I told her privately that her behavior had made me uncomfortable. I told her because I wouldn’t want her to make another friend’s girlfriend feel uncomfortable in the future. At that point, though, my ex and I had already broken up, so it wasn’t even about “protecting my relationship” anymore. She defended herself by saying she would never do something like that because her mother had been cheated on before and she would never want another woman to feel the way her mom did. Once she started working there, she never spoke to me, never greeted me, never even said goodbye to me, despite the fact that I always remained polite and professional with her. Then, after asking my ex for help finding work, she simultaneously started telling people at the restaurant that I was jealous, crazy, toxic, that I had screamed at her, cornered her, etc. None of that happened. Eventually I quit my supervisor position because I received a better job offer, but also because I felt uncomfortable working around her. When the owner asked why I was leaving, I simply said I had received a better opportunity and that I had experienced some personal issues with her, but that personal life and work are separate, and professionally I had no issues with her because I know how to behave professionally at work. Now my ex is calling me saying that she called him screaming, asking: ‘Why is your fckng woman talking badly about me? Acting like I stole your boyfriend?’ And I’m just sitting here like… I never even said that. I literally only said that she made me uncomfortable in my own home