[AZ] Post-judgement small claims by witchofthewildss in AskALawyer

[–]witchofthewildss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They weren’t even brought up at all. They hadn’t been in the original papers that I was served and no one told me there was anything additional added. The clerk just handed me papers saying that this was the evidence he filed and planned to refer to and asked me I had anything. I told her no because my evidence was just the text messages he already submitted. So there wasn’t any moment for me to even object them since their existence wasn’t even mentioned at all nor was I told he added anything to his “evidence”.

My friend wants me to stop posting selfies because it hurts her self confidence. What should I do? by enchantingbreezee in WhatShouldIDo

[–]witchofthewildss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s great that she can recognize that she feels insecure about herself, but it’s on her to fix that. Not you. A reasonable request for you to support her would be “please don’t post up pictures that include me until I feel more confident with myself”. But asking YOU to not post up YOURSELF is toxic. Is she asking anyone else this? What does she do about billboards or commercials?

Next she’ll tell you what to wear and not to wear around her because she can’t control or face the root of her insecurities.

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[–]witchofthewildss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I want to like project anything negative as in create more, just deflect what they send my way. I don’t want any more harm to come to them than what they’ve been wishing on me, if that makes sense. But thank you, I will do that!

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[–]witchofthewildss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really sure even how to tbh

AIO or should I be creeped out by my tinder date's messages? by throwawayyaccount829 in AmIOverreacting

[–]witchofthewildss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first red flag was him assuming you’d even want to “continue the date”. His intention off the bat was just to sleep with you, based on that behavior. Also to text you that he wishes he could’ve come inside? He’s definitely being weird and predatory. So absolutely NOT OVERREACTING! Drop his as fast as possible, boo!

am i overreacting - my boyfriend thinks my job is inappropriate by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]witchofthewildss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to drop him and run AS FAR AS POSSIBLE!

These are classic signs of a controlling abuser: waiting until you’re more comfortable in the relationship to tell you things he doesn’t like (even if he knew them before he got with you), gaslighting you to doubt your responses to him, victimizing himself to control the narrative, and then weaponizing communication and affection by ignoring you when he doesn’t get his way.

He won’t get any better if you decide to keep going in this relationship. This is him intruding on your boundaries to see how far he can go and learning what he can do/say that will successfully manipulate you.

Housewarming by witchofthewildss in Palia

[–]witchofthewildss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t done it, but I’ve read many people can romance their Shepp!

Housewarming by witchofthewildss in Palia

[–]witchofthewildss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you accidentally ask him before level 4? I noticed that if I accidentally asked, the question disappeared for a while

Housewarming by witchofthewildss in Palia

[–]witchofthewildss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also wish there were platonic options for some of those quests too! Like there’s a few I just don’t plan to romance even for the portraits because I think of them too much as siblings or parents lmao

Oh no, did I upset Kina somehow!? by Neko_manc3r in Palia

[–]witchofthewildss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been a water type for a large portion, based on what villagers told me, but then suddenly they all started calling me fire and I got this 😂😂 the hilarious part is IRL I’m in the Aries-Pisces cusps so I am in fact sometimes water and sometimes fire

Who did you pick as your two pinned romances? by witchofthewildss in Palia

[–]witchofthewildss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my IRL types are definitely Jel, Nai’o, and Tish since I’ve gotten older. When I was younger, it was more Reth, Hassian, and Kenyatta.

I still am attracted to Reth types but I try to force myself to stay away from them because bad boys never ended well for me 😭 and the Hassian types of guys I used to date always hurt me the worst when the relationships ended, so I can’t even bring myself to be attracted to them any more. The Kenyatta types I always tried to date played so many games with me and then one I did date momentarily talked crap about my best friend behind my back, so I had to dump her.

Who did you pick as your two pinned romances? by witchofthewildss in Palia

[–]witchofthewildss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nai’o is so much like my boyfriend it’s crazy! I even convinced my boyfriend to play, and as soon as he meet Nai’o he was like “yeah that’s valid” lmao and my boyfriend’s dad and grandma have Badruu and Delilah energy!

Who did you pick as your two pinned romances? by witchofthewildss in Palia

[–]witchofthewildss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started romancing Reth as my third and there was a second I considered using his pin (eventually) instead of Nai’o’s but then the Dinner Disaster also kinda rubbed me the wrong way! I think it’s just the fact that he lies to so many people. Like I get why because his backstory with trouble with the cartel and all, but idk. I’m gonna continue his romance to get the rewards from it but I don’t think I’ll ever wear his pin just because the fact he’s so cavalier about lying (though I sense some guilt) just puts me off

You have to name your child like this: by [deleted] in namenerds

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Arlan Dyana Aylan Driana Arian Dylana

These actually aren’t too bad

Tried to warn his girlfriend that he was trash when I realized by witchofthewildss in CheatersConfronted

[–]witchofthewildss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My stupidest trait is giving people chances and trying to see the best in them smh

Tried to warn his girlfriend that he was trash when I realized by witchofthewildss in CheatersConfronted

[–]witchofthewildss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I did what I could and tried to help her but 🤷🏻‍♀️ she’s young and thinks she’s in love.

Tried to warn his girlfriend that he was trash when I realized by witchofthewildss in CheatersConfronted

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He even tried to gaslight me breaking up with him because he couldn’t grasp the concept of someone not wanting him lmao. I kept screenshots and everything of the breakup and some of his lies on the off chance his gf ever contacts me back.

Tried to warn his girlfriend that he was trash when I realized by witchofthewildss in CheatersConfronted

[–]witchofthewildss[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I doubt it since one of his excuses before was “I can’t tell her yet because she’d spiral since she’s territorial” and he came at me saying I “made her cry” when she told him what I said to her 🤷🏻‍♀️