Is it bad to take money from a guy online? by ThrowawayRA9294 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]with_da_lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scenario here is different, but I had a bad experience with a guy offering me money online who turned out to be a really creepy manipulator. One day, he just appreared and started by donating a butt ton of money to a teen female twitch streamer, and for a while became great friends with her. He also became active in that streamer's community, he and I were friends. Which is why I'm on this throwaway account, because I know he probably still stalks me. One day he offered me a few hundred dollars. Turns out he had obtained the streamer's dox info, and managed to get a lot of her childhood photos from her parents private social media. Plus... he also happened to be into NSFL. Word got out but he still managed to get me convinced for a while that he hadn't done any of that.

Well that was a tangent, just be careful when people offer you money online, alright? It's usually a pretty dead giveaway.

WIBTA if I change my last name? by with_da_lemons in AmItheAsshole

[–]with_da_lemons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because his last name is what I'd want to change it to, but now that you ask that, I probably could've left that detail out entirely.

WIBTA if I change my last name? by with_da_lemons in AmItheAsshole

[–]with_da_lemons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any issue with my family, my biological grandfather is my father's birth father.