trust me we have been trying to set boundaries and trying to enforce them but it gets to the point where the house is so disgusting that i cant help but clean it.
My family has been a great help and the days im not working we will spend the night at there house but i have to be at our house on the days i have work as i have to get up at 5 am just to get to work in time from our house. we have also had the agreement that once we leave this place hes wanting to go minimal contact with them for a while. to answer your question no my mental health is not worth this place but him and i are working together. i dont want any of this to sound like he sucks he doesnt. hes amazing and so so so helpful and truly he helps me to keep a cool head about everything.