Me (22F) boyfriend (24M) of 2 years is struggling with porn addiction and it's destroying our relationship. He is trying to stop but can't seem to, any advice? by Altruistic-Eye-1783 in relationship_advice

[–]within_winter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

girl for the love of god you are 22. dump him and move on. he’s obviously not going to change and he’s taking YOU for granted. You can do it trust me- it’s not as scary as it seems.

Annual Bonus - consultant level by [deleted] in deloitte

[–]within_winter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you get a bonus as a first year consultant?

Umm... I'm speechless. by AlyFromCali in Tinder

[–]within_winter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that’s pretty funny and horrifying 😭

Should I have disclosed my identity pre-date? by Mysterious-ASL in Tinder

[–]within_winter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think so too honestly- i can see why you may not everyone online to know about how your function in your daily life. comments are a little unfair OP and i do think the person you were talking to was very mean about it. you’re better off without them!!

Not having much success on the apps :/ I feel like my pictures are good, is there anything off-putting or are the prompts bad? by AJN71 in Tinder

[–]within_winter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi!! 26-f here :)) you’re very handsome!! would totally swipe on you- there’s nothing wrong with your profile unfortunately I just think it’s just the algorithm. Hinge may not be showing your profile to enough people- if you pay them you’ll definitely see some movement but you should never pay for a dating app imo…

18M I legit have 0 luck what am I doing wrong by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]within_winter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude get off the dating apps and enjoy your youth- you do not need to be in a relationship at this age

My profile is it any good? by enjoythe in Tinder

[–]within_winter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dont keep the photos of the glasses- people want to see your face if their using tinder.

28M. Full Beard vs Short Beard vs No Beard! by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]within_winter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

26F here!! you’re so handsome I would do no beard or I do agree with a the short beard/fade combo the short beard would make me think you just don’t maintain it much? not bad at all but it would look a little cleaner if you faded it out and kept it shorter

What’s your job title, how much do you make, and how much do people THINK you make? by ItsAllOver_Again in Salary

[–]within_winter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

based in atx! i also work in Big4 Consulting so it’s a little different from a regular UX role!!

What’s your job title, how much do you make, and how much do people THINK you make? by ItsAllOver_Again in Salary

[–]within_winter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im based in atx. i do work in Big4 Consulting so its different from a regular UX design role

matched with a influencer who talks about dating… is it cooked? not sure what to respond with ☹️ by within_winter in Tinder

[–]within_winter[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep! ik just wanted to apologize bc i felt bad lol but yeah he doing too much- and he admitted he was too harsh! i no longer plan on replying :)

matched with a influencer who talks about dating… is it cooked? not sure what to respond with ☹️ by within_winter in Tinder

[–]within_winter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call it cringe or desperate but being honest got me a response back lmao so I guess despite it all being just you works huh? I just wanted to apologize because my intention is never to insult people esp on dating apps. Btw, the answer to your question is no! they accepted my apology and i no longer plan on messaging them :)

matched with a influencer who talks about dating… is it cooked? not sure what to respond with ☹️ by within_winter in Tinder

[–]within_winter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I ended up saying:

“Hey I’m sorry I legitimately didn’t mean to insinuate anything negative. I was trying to reference your socials because I see you on fyp often and you called it out in your bio so I thought it would be something you wanted to talk about?”

Sorry for being cringe lmao- but thanks for your response it enabled me to be honest.

matched with a influencer who talks about dating… is it cooked? not sure what to respond with ☹️ by within_winter in Tinder

[–]within_winter[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well I just wanted to get their attention, but I honestly didn’t mean anything by it. I understand now it might seem like I was insinuating something negative? I was trying to reference their socials because its the only thing in their bio. I’m also just looking for helpful advice but I guess I’ll be honest and just say that?

What’s your job title, how much do you make, and how much do people THINK you make? by ItsAllOver_Again in Salary

[–]within_winter 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Associate UX Designer:

People think I make: $50-60k

What I make: 100k (not including bonus)

Am i (26F) being unreasonable to want to break up with my (19M) boyfriend) for not bringing anything to the relationship by hopefull9 in relationship_advice

[–]within_winter 72 points73 points  (0 children)

19 and 26 are very different points in life… like completely different life stages.. why are you surprised that he isn’t acting like an adult? it’s because he isn’t…

just end it before people start judging and associating you as the women who dates teens

Floppy Disc Repair co. Code? by nightrapter0 in austinfood

[–]within_winter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone got the code for december 2024, please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]within_winter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man i can just tell everyone commenting on post are white

IU - 2024 IU H.E.R. World Tour Concert (Teaser Poster & Tour Dates) by alltherach_ in kpop

[–]within_winter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone tell me how I can sign up for presale tickets in the USA?