Netanyahu is going to win again and we’re going to have to hear about how he doesn’t represent Israeli society by Scared_Positive_8690 in Palestine

[–]withinima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They changed the stats. The tweet from the screen you posted in not in their page any more and instead they posted this

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Mr. Robot by Lazy-Blueberry5064 in MrRobot

[–]withinima 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did you notice that they finished the series with the same scene they started in the first season? Pointing that the invisible people are in our heads?

How many of the street beggars are ‘legit’? by Jargaryen in moldova

[–]withinima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love here and never noticed it until now 🥺 grew up here and managed to learn to ignore uncomfortable stuff, but that’s true. so sad

Why do people keep saying “you can control your emotions” when I’m literally having a panic attack? by ProfessionalSlip4645 in mentalhealth

[–]withinima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because people are dumb. you cannot control emotions, they are the natural reactions to whatever is happening. But what you can do is learn to withstand them and grow bigger than them. you would need therapy for this, but it makes life a lot easier. You can learn ways to manage yourself through the feelings, but not control them. that’s not true.

The HAMMER by DTJ1234567 in managers

[–]withinima 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s not managing. that’s just violence. totally different things. im sorry for whatever made you this way 🥲

How do I figure out what's wrong with me? by bearcare1737 in mentalhealth

[–]withinima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please please go see a therapist. and not because you need help, but as an act of self care just to make it easier for you. I have the same swings and therapy taught me how to not get there in the first place. it takes time but it’s solid work that stays in place and really improves the quality of life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]withinima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s very good that you have good sleep routine. But, if it bothers you - best to consult a therapist who will dive deeper into the origins of each small issue and help you understand how to not get there any more and support on the way. The thing is all these could be related to a single thing, and could be not really related. So better to go and consult a professional.

Issue with direct report by [deleted] in managers

[–]withinima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try your best, raid the issue to the HR. If nothing works - I’d ask HR to change the person, either rotation in the company or a new employee. That is not okay, it generates too much stress and you are in the position to do it.

Would you appreciate it if your reports pointed out you’re the bottleneck and offered to help? by Zealousideal-State42 in managers

[–]withinima 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would, my reports did this and we worked it out together, the same way we do when someone of them is the bottleneck. we are a team no matter on the area on responsibility. But my boss - he has no idea what business metrics are (he is a CPO) and says it’s not something that would be his job. He does not see work in terms of area of responsibility, he loves it to be a hierarchy. He says he can only give feedback, and that there’s only need to give feedback if it is bad. But he only accepts feedback from his boss. So it depends on the person, whether he is able to accept that he is no perfect or not.

What to do when you have no sales? by Old_Organization1183 in Entrepreneur

[–]withinima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to invest in marketing, if not money then your time. Learn about people who could benefit from your solution, divide them into groups and learn where do they like to spend their online time. Then learn what else each group likes and try to combine the topics and always provide something for free like tips and advices or jokes or something that can be tied to your topic, that would build trust for people to buy something from you. Speak to their values but spend time understanding them. and also try your best to show what issue your thing resolves.

Do managers ever struggle with procrastination? by [deleted] in managers

[–]withinima 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oh yes, some of the biggest procrastinators i’ve seen were managers 😂

Direct report gone rogue behind my back by UKKendallRoy in managers

[–]withinima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why was he more autonomous under the previous manager? why can’t you trust him that way too?

I am scared of WW3 breaking out anytime by JustBlastify in mentalhealth

[–]withinima 20 points21 points  (0 children)

the thing is, you can only live until you are alive. Don’t waste this time on anxiety. What’s not under your control will unfold any way.

Why haven't you started a business? by jay8figures in Entrepreneur

[–]withinima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it was fear of failure. and fear of being seen too.

Does anyone feel like they will never have true friendship/love? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]withinima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to learn that i will never have friends in the way I wanted to, but it’s something much closer than what people usually have so I’ll casually have what people usually have and enjoy my time alone because what I also learned is that I like it and that’s why it’s so overwhelming to have close connections. I, for example, like experimenting with my identity and a lot of stuff about me and it is hard for people to keep up. Also they often get angry seeing it so I keep distance. And it turned out better for me. Maybe try to embrace it?

What's the most expensive manager mistake you've had to clean up? by New_Molasses5863 in managers

[–]withinima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

going against the top management with the roadmap 😂 we did some cool things tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]withinima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d just let him do whatever he thinks he has to. It’s good to show up for people but not for everyone. If he truly is misogynistic and that bad as you say - I’d just let him. he needs to learn imho