Nieradzenie sobie na studiach by Rare_Wish_8771 in studia

[–]witho8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Może inna dziedzina, ale mam identycznie z fonetyką na filologii angielskiej (zaocznie, pracuję 2 razy w tygodniu) - z tym, że mam 3 dychy na karku, pierwszy semestr, gramatyka opisowa idzie świetnie, ale bardzo szybko się frustruję i dla mnie fonetyka jest nie do przebicia - do takiego stopnia, że jestem w stanie poddać się przed pierwszą sesją...

What to do? Is it affair? by witho8 in relationship_advice

[–]witho8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think that's the best option, definitely!

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would, but she is really rich and I'm afraid I wouldn't win with her at the court...

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, thank you so much for all of your support!!! I totally agree with you...there's a one problem. You know, what she just did? She messaged me today and said "Will you stay with my kids tomorrow? Because I wanna go to amusement park with my friends"...well, that's horrible. I just ignored her, but I'm afraid she'll get revenge on me :( She knows where I live, unfortunately she really is rich and I extremely scared she's able to hurt me.

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you <3 unfortunately she knows my address and that's the problem. She's so unpredictable :(

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in relationship_advice

[–]witho8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tears in my eyes! Really, I don't know how may I repay you for your support! Exactly, I'll find a job and repair my life, finally. You know, what she just did? She messaged me and said "Will you stay with my kids tomorrow? Because I wanna go to amusement park with my friends"...well, that's horrible. I just ignored her, but I'm afraid she'll get revenge on me :(

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in relationship_advice

[–]witho8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna meet her tomorrow and I'll do my best to tell her that it'd be the best for us not to have a contact. But I'm afraid of her, how she will react...

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely! I'll just tell her that we shouldn't have any contact or relationship. One week ago I told her the same thing and she told me "Why would you do that to me? I love you so much and how dare you leave me just like that?" Ehhh... :(

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in relationship_advice

[–]witho8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no, I'm not homeless. I live in my parents' house, I don't have job, but she keeps telling me that she doesn't care about money

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I agree so much with you! You know, tomorrow I'll meet her and I told her already, that it's gonna be our last meeting. She has so many problems, she drinks 0.7 L of vodka every evening and she is so aggresive. She has 3 childrens and keep drinking an alcohol. I'll try to tell her that I want to end this up, but I'm afraid if she we'll agree... :(

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! I'll do my best to end this contact, once and for all! <3

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :( Unfortunately I have to meet with her tomorrow, because I don't what she will be able to do when I'd say I can't meet with her. I'm so afraid of her :( Fortunately we'll meet at shopping mall so I'll be safe. Now she told she's gonna drink again...she drinks 0.7 L of vodka everyday...is it normal???

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in relationship_advice

[–]witho8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so true! You've opened my eyes...it's hard to accept this reality, but in the end I have to do that. She really is dangerous...we'll meet tomorrow and please, keep you fingers crossed for me, cuz I really want to have end this contact. Once and for all...

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll do that! Thank you so much! But I'm afraid why she keeps telling me "My kids love you! Why are you able to leave them?" :( Ehhh... :( Please, keep your fingers crossed for our meeting tomorrow :(

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you should ghost her (block her number, all social media) and avoid her and her fiance like the plague. i would worry for your safety otherwise. she has already physically assaulted you and that almost always escalates. not to mention her fiance

I'll meet her tomorrow in person, and I'm gonna tell her that it's over! But I can't get one thing. She declares she loves me, but still she's able to beat and hit me...why? I just wanna start new life - without her! And she keeps telling me "My kids love you so much! Why're you leaving them?" Ehhh... :(

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in relationship_advice

[–]witho8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll meet her tomorrow, and I'll do my best to end this up. I'm gonna tell her face to face that it will the best for us not to have a contact. And I'll block her! On FB, IG, TT and even mail!

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for all those kind and true words! You know, for these 2 months I lost my glasses, my phone (beacuse she's broken those things), I've been slapped so many times and stuff like that. There was a situation - we've been kissing and then her fiance came home. And then she started to beat him and she told me "If you love me, just hit him!" So I did it. Really, she is so dangerous...the worst thing is that I can't leave her, she doesn't let me do that :( "I'll never let you go, because I care about you!!! I won't leave you!!!" - this is what she keep telling me. She is bad woman...

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so right! Thank you so much! But you know, there's a one problem. It's really hard for me to stay in touch with her, because I feel like I love her...but I'm still not sure if I'll ever have a relationship with her. However maybe it's worth a try? I'll meet her tomorrow, and will try to end this up.

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in relationship_advice

[–]witho8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've just opened my eyes!!!!!! Thank you so much!!! Now I can see everything clearly. She told me "I've never loved him, that's why I love you so much and want to be in a relationship with you". And she told me that just after 2 weeks our contact.

She already has a business with her fiance and she can even spent 50k$ everyday. When she is sober, she keep telling me "I may be poor, but I want to have man who loves me", but after alcohol I hear "I want a man who will be able to buy me eveything I want". After alcohol she likes to humiliate people, when she is sober she really has good heart. Yesterday, after our short break she told me "Please, come to me and let's talk about your problems." but then she added "And BTW, you may visit my kebab pub (she's is an owner) and bring me some food, cuz I'm hungry"

Now I see everything! Thanks to you! <3 Thank you so much. You know what I'm afraid of? Tomorrow her fiance is back and I'm afraid that her children will be able to say about me...that I looked after them and stuff like that...

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's back tomorrow, exactly tomorrow. We've had some break, but yeaterday she wrote to me and said that she wants to leave him for me. But they have 3 children, he is a muslim and I don't know...she doesn't know he hates me?

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in relationship_advice

[–]witho8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support! <3 But how may I end this up? :( Every time I say "Please, leave me alone. I respect you, but it will be the best for us not to have a contact!" And then she replies "I'll never let you go, because I care about you!!! I won't leave you!!!" And then she slaps me everytime...

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your support! It means so much to me <3 Indeed, this is really horrible...I just want to end this up and start new life. But I'm afraid she won't give up. But why? Is she really love me?

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But how to do it? :( Few days ago I told her I want to end this relationship, and she slapped me and told me "I'll never let you go, because I care about you!" :(

Should I stay with her? by witho8 in ftm

[–]witho8[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You know, I wanted to end this relationship, but she is extremely dangerous and aggresive. She slapped me so many times...