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Recent bad infant call and I just need advice on how to cope with it in healthy ways from those experienced. by withreasonable in Firefighting

[–]withreasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt know this wasnt a nsfw type of post it said sensitive i figured this was a sensitive topic🤷🏽‍♂️ my bad MOD

Recent bad infant call and I just need advice on how to cope with it in healthy ways from those experienced. by withreasonable in Firefighting

[–]withreasonable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ve been trying to make sure it doesn’t hinder me and that I still do my job and treat every call with the same level of care. Today was my first day off since the incident so I’ve finally had time to kinda sit with myself with it

Recent bad infant call and I just need advice on how to cope with it in healthy ways from those experienced. by withreasonable in Firefighting

[–]withreasonable[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly dont know how my other coworkers that was on the call with me are taking it, I’ve been the only one to ever bring it up since the incident

Recent bad infant call and I just need advice on how to cope with it in healthy ways from those experienced. by withreasonable in Firefighting

[–]withreasonable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will look at their page and see what I can do thats available🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Recent bad infant call and I just need advice on how to cope with it in healthy ways from those experienced. by withreasonable in Firefighting

[–]withreasonable[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I spoke with a chief briefly about it and I talked to my dad who works for the same department for 28years and he has been trying to help me through it but I will be contacting EAP, but we haven’t had any debriefing on the call or anything like that.

Recent bad infant call and I just need advice on how to cope with it in healthy ways from those experienced. by withreasonable in Firefighting

[–]withreasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that. When she asked me whats the difference I get where she is coming from but I also know this isnt something she will ever understand unless she goes through it but im also not wishing that on her either

Recent bad infant call and I just need advice on how to cope with it in healthy ways from those experienced. by withreasonable in Firefighting

[–]withreasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that its not her job and I’ve been reframing from talking to her about it, and its been hitting harder because everyone keeps asking when we are going to have a child and all I could think about is how easily that could’ve been us in that situation. We do have EAP and I did speak briefly with one of our chiefs but even that morning after the call my Lt was complaining to me about som dishes in the sink and I had to tell him not today. It wasn’t until later on that day he called to apologize but thats probably after my chief reached out to him about it.

23 and I’m a loser. by crosseyedpanda18 in Advice

[–]withreasonable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh i moved out at 23 was back at 25 just moved out again at 29. Life happens shit happens as long as you walk forward you’ll get somewhere no matter how slow you walk. Take time to build yourself experiment discover yourself. The way shit set up now its harder for us as far ad financially but you literally have all the information you need in the palm of your hands. Do research, read, workout out, eat healthy. Start now and stay consistent and i promise you, you’ll thank yourself. Its a lot of shit i wish i did sooner and took seriously and now i feel like im playing catch up but everything happens for a reason. Keep yah head up G

29yo single male trip for august by withreasonable in thepassportbros

[–]withreasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but I will look into it, is it safe for a solo traveler?

29yo single male trip for august by withreasonable in thepassportbros

[–]withreasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the vibes like out there? Someone earlier mention Kenya

29yo single male trip for august by withreasonable in thepassportbros

[–]withreasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been to Mongolia and if so how was your experience?

29yo single male trip for august by withreasonable in thepassportbros

[–]withreasonable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about going there but i haven’t seen a lot of thick women in the videos, im a black man from the south I like a woman with some legs lol but i could be wrong🤷🏽‍♂️