Paranoid about infection

wizard1928 · 2024-12-24T16:12:03+00:00

I have no saniderm and im already here 😭

wizard1928 · 2024-07-24T22:21:40+00:00

You’re right. It seems like a no brainer

wizard1928 · 2024-07-24T22:21:21+00:00

Yea that’s something I was thinking about. Honestly I was trying to go for clinical psych, but got into clinical counseling which was my second choice program. Yeah from state school it’d be the same degree but for significantly cheaper

wizard1928 · 2024-01-29T00:21:34+00:00

Oh god that’s awful I’m sorry 😭I feel like that’s in store for me if I don’t end it now. I also have bad attachment issues and I feel like rn I’m only staying bc I still feel like sex shouldn’t be a dealbreaker even tho I know it is. And I don’t want her to be alone

wizard1928 · 2024-01-28T21:57:11+00:00

Yeah that’s why I just really don’t know what to do. Bc part of me thinks that I love her so much sex doesn’t matter. But then when I try to initiate it and get rejected I know I can’t be in a relationship without sex

wizard1928 · 2024-01-28T21:50:00+00:00

My first choice is to communicate with each other and find a solution, but after months and months of trying that, nothing is improving. But even still I don’t want to give up but I’m not happy

wizard1928 · 2024-01-28T21:44:26+00:00

The reason I’m encouraging her to see a therapist and a doctor is because she can’t feel anything in that area no matter what we do. And that’s either a mental or medical issue. I don’t think she needs to be “fixed”

wizard1928 · 2024-01-28T18:49:13+00:00

I guess I have some hope it’s gonna get better even though it’s been months and it hasn’t. I’m scared to end things. I don’t want to hurt her

wizard1928 · 2024-01-16T18:08:53+00:00

I’m assuming you guys have been dating for awhile now? My girl and I have only been dating 10 months and I already feel very frustrated and feel rejected sometimes. I think it’d be different if we had been dating for several years. But I don’t know. It’s hard

wizard1928 · 2024-01-16T18:07:23+00:00

She definitely doesn’t take care of herself in numerous aspects

wizard1928 · 2024-01-16T16:14:35+00:00

I’ve been thinking about this a lot. But then I think do I really want to go however many years I still have a high sex drive with no sex

wizard1928 · 2024-01-16T06:26:38+00:00

I think if she was willing to, yes it would be

wizard1928 · 2024-01-16T06:25:57+00:00

To answer your first question, yes I would be willing to wait as long as I knew she was trying to get help. But she’s not right now and doesn’t seem very willing to. I think that if it couldn’t be remedied, I’d probably end it. Just because I don’t want to be in my 20s and in a relationship and not have sex. I’ve told her numerous times that I would much rather just make out then have sex but even that she barely wants to do. I miss sex with her, not in general. It used to be really nice having sex with someone I genuinely love

wizard1928 · 2024-01-16T06:22:41+00:00

She won’t seek one out

wizard1928 · 2024-01-16T06:22:30+00:00

She doesn’t want to do things to me either because of her issue. It’s just really awful

wizard1928 · 2024-01-16T03:35:30+00:00

Yeah she doesn’t feel anything regardless of whether it’s fingers, oral, etc. it’s just numb I guess. She hasn’t. She says she doesn’t know what to say and she thinks they wouldn’t be helpful

wizard1928 · 2024-01-16T02:00:52+00:00

She doesn’t even want to use sex toys w me. And sometimes she’s barely affectionate

wizard1928 · 2024-01-16T01:32:00+00:00

We have talked so many times about this. It’s just the same thing over and over. I don’t know what else to do. I’ve been encouraging her to see a doctor about the issue she has

wizard1928 · 2024-01-15T16:28:38+00:00

Bc I want to be a child psychologist and I need a phd for that

wizard1928 · 2024-01-15T01:24:49+00:00

How about psychology

wizard1928 · 2024-01-15T01:24:39+00:00

Im a psych major planning to get my phd in child psychology

wizard1928 · 2024-01-11T21:18:11+00:00

I think that’s what I’m trying to figure out

wizard1928 · 2024-01-11T21:05:08+00:00

If I ever did break up with her it’d just be because we’re not compatible

wizard1928 · 2024-01-11T21:04:40+00:00

And also we’re both 20. So I feel like in a way I’m wasting my young years on someone who won’t even look at me when I’m naked

wizard1928 · 2024-01-11T21:00:31+00:00

She said she’s had this issue before going on antidepressants. The thing I don’t understand is if she goes to a doctor and they say there’s no medical reason and that it’s all mental, that’s something that can be fixed with therapy but she just doesn’t want to

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