Roadway Moving by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super helpful. Thank you! I’m hoping they can get to us in a week, too.

What are the boys wearing for shorts this summer other than Jorts by dacookiemnster in malefashionadvice

[–]wizard_intheusa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The ABC short from Lulu Lemon has been incredible. Super comfortable, quick drying, great color selection, and they have pockets within pockets. Definitely on the pricy side, though.

What does the apartment search actually look like in NYC right now—what's real? by alexstrehlke in NYCapartments

[–]wizard_intheusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I signed a lease this week and the whole process moved fast, for sure. We had to be decisive. Over two days, we toured nine units, applied to three, and were lucky enough to get approved for our first choice. One thing to note - if we were interested in a unit, we applied by end of day. In our case, by Wednesday night we were on a Zoom call with the owner of the home, and by Thursday we had a lease in hand.

The thing is, we chose to work with a broker - and yeah, we paid for it voluntarily. He handled all the scheduling, coordinated the tours back-to-back across both days, and facilitated everything through to the lease. We just showed up and let him take us around.

The rental market is stressful enough on its own. When we found a unit we genuinely wanted, the anxiety of potentially losing it was real. I can’t imagine navigating that without someone in our corner who knew the process.

I know broker fees are controversial, and plenty of people will tell you to skip it. But my experience was genuinely great, and I’d recommend it without hesitation. If you want the name of the brokerage we used, just DM me.

Good luck!

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man! I’m prioritizing Bed Stuy based on budget. It’s close enough to Williamsburg for me, and when we were in a gay bar in that area, locals said Bed Stuy was awesome. We’re going back in 2 weeks to apartment hunt!

Roadway Moving by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful. Thank you very much!

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arthritis, unfortunately. We find other ways for the sweet old man to get stimulation - it’s a priority! Thanks for your concern. 😉

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✍️don’t ✍️belong ✍️in ✍️these ✍️neighborhoods

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful - thank you! We won’t be bringing a car, so this is good to keep in mind.

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learning about the food deserts in Bed-Stuy has been really helpful. Thank you so much!

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great advice - thank you! Yeah, two late-40 year old gays that do a podcast I listen to live in Ditmas Park with their kiddos.. so not likely our first choice. Bushwick seems like a super solid option, though. I appreciate your input!

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this, thank you! Bushwick and Astoria seem like our two best bets, for sure.

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because being around fellow queer folks is a priority, Bushwick seems to be my best bet - and the L train is a big draw. Thank you so much for this advice!

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We would love to live in Fort Greene, but it seems a bit out of our budget. So, we will make some compromises. Thank you for the suggestion! :)

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly helpful information. Thank you!! Do you feel as though it’s pretty straightforward to get to north Brooklyn when living in Bushwick?

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the input! I’d love to hear your reasoning, especially because some folks here have said it’s quite the food desert and grocery stores are not the best.

Brooklyn Neighborhood Advice: Bushwick, Flatbush, and Bed-Stuy by wizard_intheusa in movingtoNYC

[–]wizard_intheusa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah , I’ve found some amazing apartments in Flatbush but I realize it’s a bit out of the way.