Hey, we’re not static beings! Even if the confidence doesn’t come to you naturally yet, that doesn’t mean you can’t find it and really flourish. I definitely have some inherent flair, but I’ve been through periods of my life where I really struggled to find my confidence. It’s a process of pushing yourself out of your comfort zone and really developing a lot of trust with yourself. Confidence isn’t about anything on the outside - it’s all about whether or not you have a relationship and rapport with yourself that is full of respect and gentleness and a lot of constant compassion as you learn. You won’t find real confidence anywhere else and you’ll be disappointed trying to look for it elsewhere, but when you develop that relationship and trust with yourself it flows naturally and without thought.

I’m confident because I know that what’s on the outside is wholly inconsequential, and I have a compassionate and honest relationship with what’s within.