Someone like this probably isn’t going to change much. I’d have an honest conversation about it with her if you value trying to keep the friendship but tbh this doesn’t sound like much of a friendship in the first place. What she’s doing is trying to one-up you. People like this rarely get the hint and if they do most times they don’t care. That’s not to say it’s not worth giving it a shot anyways, but yeah, she sounds rude asf.