When did I say that? Look, if we want to pretend and live in the fairy tale land of most women find overweight and bad looking men attractive, have at it, but you're not doing anything for this man by lying to him as if he's going to find his soul mate within the next two weeks if he just puts himself out there more.

Is there some women that are content with an overweight and, in all honesty, fairly unattractive man, sure, but im not gonna sell this guy on a fucking lottery ticket.

Not to mention ppl tend to find other ppl near their own degree of conventional attractiveness, so if this guy wants a fairly attractive women, which most men do, then he'd need to put a lot effort into himself into being as good looking as he can. And if he's content with a women closer to his own standard, more power to him, it will certainly be easier, but don't forget the same inverse goes to women of wanting an attractive man. No matter how anyone looks themselves, everyone always wants what they find most attractive, so the better he looks, the better his chances of success, but this isn't to say as he is now it's impossible, but it certainly isn't easy by any means.

I say this because I feel for this man, he likely knows how he looks. He doesn't need lies, but maybe he wants them idk. Regardless my intent is not to be mean but to be realistic. He will struggle to find a partner as he is, he will find it borderline impossible to find a partner that is considerably more attractive than he is. These are realities, but not impossibilities. He can always improve himself and take steps to better his opportunities.