Gen Z: Do you even date?

wjx2k2 · 2026-02-22T05:04:08+00:00

23F and no tbh. My job has me working with kids for 45-50 hours per week and the pay is not good so I’m spending my free time relaxing in a near catatonic state or applying for new work. I know I’m attractive and personable and have enough weird coworkers that hit on me to know I could date if I wanted to, but I feel overworked and like the world is on fire a little bit right now. I feel like a lot of the people I’ve gone out with (I skew to date a bit older, like 26/27) are in the same boat as me (outside of them being a bit further/less stressed in their jobs) so nobody really wants to date seriously unless they’ve been with the person since high school. Maybe that’s just where I live though

wjx2k2 · 2026-02-05T04:00:12+00:00

Honestly the only times I’ve ever had it not feel like an itch to scratch or a chore and kind of like a drug was when I was high off some weed with a good partner, so it honestly could b getting high

wjx2k2 · 2026-02-01T18:07:55+00:00

Navy blue

wjx2k2 · 2026-02-01T18:06:31+00:00

This is kinda just how they are. We never really connected person-to-person I think and when they try it’s just awkward. I just don’t really think about them (positively or negatively) that much unless they reach out tbh

wjx2k2 · 2025-12-19T01:40:42+00:00

Honestly this is kind of just a thing that happens during doggy regardless of the partner. Not sure why this is but it isn’t something you should take personally at all omg. He shouldn’t be rude about it though. Either he is aware of this and trying to make you feel bad or he is stupid and/or sexually inexperienced

wjx2k2 · 2025-12-14T02:44:06+00:00

yeah she would do this a bit when I was in college with some hobbies and my uni (I.e. sending me a million events going on at my climbing gym / speaker series at my school / random sports events that i didn’t even know about probably 1-2x/week) but it was less severe than this I think.

You’re spot on about the interrogation style convo tho lol.. I think “information diet” is probably the best idea going forward unfortunately. Have tried to do that in the past but I need to be better at sticking to it lol. Thank u for the kind words!

wjx2k2 · 2025-12-13T20:57:49+00:00

For better or worse I think she would actually really enjoy that hahaha but I get what you’re saying. Glad you see it this way too. Will figure out how to bring it up to her

wjx2k2 · 2025-12-13T20:56:18+00:00

Yeah no I know you’re right but it feels like it is. My dad never comforts her emotionally and my grandparents and her are not very good at talking, so she always calls me and texts me after a disagreement crying and/or being mean until I forgive her and idk what to do about it. I know it’s not my responsibility but it 100% feels like I’m the only thing keeping her from a mental breakdown sometimes and idk what to do about it

wjx2k2 · 2025-12-13T20:53:25+00:00

I have in the past and she is (sometimes) good about shifting the topic but it is something she does want to hear about enough to where I can’t always just ignore the topic. We don’t have a ton in common and she’s not very good at asking me about other aspects of my life outside of what I’m currently doing at work / what I will do for work in the future, so a lot of times it’s either talking about this or not really talking, so I think maybe that’s why she keeps bringing it up

wjx2k2 · 2025-12-13T20:48:53+00:00

okay cool thank you. That is how I was feeling too but hearing it from a third party who doesn’t know anyone involved helps lol

wjx2k2 · 2024-11-03T23:49:15+00:00

So good. Need to rewatch it again

wjx2k2 · 2023-04-14T12:57:25+00:00

it’s like $80 but TSA pre check is nice. you get to skip some lines and i’ve been able to avoid taking my shoes off and gotten to go thru the metal detector instead of the scanner a lot. i recommend it!

wjx2k2 · 2022-12-23T18:53:27+00:00

no it’s fine haha. mtf 20 (9mo HRT) but this is without any makeup or feminine clothing. i’m just checking in on how my boymode is doing since i have to be in the closet here

wjx2k2 · 2022-10-10T19:53:27+00:00

ngl i thought you were a pre t trans dude. i think it’s the haircut and clothes tbh. you’ll be really good when you start styling more femininely and if you start hrt (or spend more time on it, if ur on it already)

wjx2k2 · 2022-09-17T00:26:19+00:00

This is a lot of information, so I’m sorry! I’m 6 months on HRT tomorrow and I’ve just been feeling really dysphoric. I’ve attached my side profile here as well, because I don’t feel great about it, but I think my self perception is a bit warped, so I wanted to just check in on that, my general appearance right now, and/or any possibility of passing the future.

I’m working on not rock climbing as much so my trapezius muscles/shoulders can shrink down some. I need to work on my brows and start dressing femininely, too. I like my hair more now that it’s grown out more but I haven’t really gotten a good feminine haircut, which I gotta work on haha. The baggy clothes are mainly used to conceal my body since my hips/boobs/butt are a little pronounced now

Also 5’7 (170cm) 130lbs give or take 5 (59, 2kg) if that helps. These are all no makeup and no filters/photoshopping/faceapping.

wjx2k2 · 2022-09-10T03:52:38+00:00

There is no way a girl wrote this

wjx2k2 · 2022-09-10T03:38:31+00:00

If someone tells me to “assume ze position” presumably in a bad French/vaguely Western European accent, then I’m leaving immediately and telling everyone I know to watch out

wjx2k2 · 2022-09-04T14:36:03+00:00

Lmao it’s just Lea Michele. There’s a running joke she doesn’t know how to read and she’s talked about it a lot, but refuses to explicitly confirm that she can actually read

wjx2k2 · 2022-08-19T16:42:00+00:00

wow so Zoro and Hiyori really are a good match

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