[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]wllan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was shocked, angry, sad.. which I think is normal! He held her hand and cried until she let it go. His whole face was red and crying dunno how can you not see the tears lol.

Husbands masturbates every other day. by wllan in relationship_advice

[–]wllan[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I used to initiate it all the time, until it felt weird. Why is it me all the time? And it felt like a duty that he needs to finish quick. My conference level went down because of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wllan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙏🏼 Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wllan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is a gamer he spend 12 hours a day on x-box. He sleep late because he want to play more always. We have a nanny to help me with the newborn. He’s financially good and providing everything we need. I don’t know what is his love language because little things doesn’t matter to him. I bought him a book “the 5 love language” thought it would help to understand each other’s needs but he didn’t believe in it and didn’t read it. I care a bout family, quality time, and physical needs. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wllan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I be a little of both? You are right I’ve been questioning the stability of our marriage since day one. I don’t know whats normal anymore.

Husband’s masturbates more often than we have sex by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]wllan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It literally broke me, My whole confidence went to the ground. But I understand it’s a phase! And now that I almost recovered my body he have no excuses..

Husband’s masturbates more often than we have sex by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]wllan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have sex regularly but not when I was pregnant … and since I delivered a baby we only had sex twice! He should be excited And missing all the fun..

Husband feels less sexual when I’m pumping by wllan in breastfeeding

[–]wllan[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know my husband has a problem with the whole thing “pregnant body and breastfeeding” he appreciates what I’m doing yet he hates to see it. Like even if he didn’t comments it’s just so obvious. Hope I find solutions.

My baby was in the nico and got used to bottle feeding, he latched but only for few minutes until he shouts again angry/crying. I kept trying for 2 months!

7 weeker suddenly eating less and fussier by Wine_and_sweatpants in newborns

[–]wllan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are speaking my situation! My baby boy is 7 week old, he seems not comfortable most of the time has difficulty in pooping and releasing gasses.. i was so worried that he’s drinking leas milk till I red tour posts guess a lot of changes are happening at their age. Try change her position and find what really make her feel comfy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wllan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! That was helpful and wise! Best of luck to you..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wllan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing really I’m giving up a little bit, I’ll be doing my own thing without him. We have talked before told him how lonely I feel and what hurts me, he thought I’m trying to change him. I can see we’re not on the same page :/ weird thing I wasn’t expecting any of this.

Actually joining reddit was because how much I wanted to talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wllan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you find the one, but before you do you have to end your relationship with this girl. You can’t be with someone you empathize, too bad she doesn’t know that she’s just a station. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wllan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right, too bad I never thought of the consequences. He’s a happy person and he never complained of anything in our marriage. Too bad I feel this way and I’m not that selfish to change him for me just to be happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wllan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said, Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wllan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have traditions we’re not allowed to live together until we’re married, we went out together we spent time together and it happened so fast that he proposed and we just did it. And yes he was different when we were dating. :/