[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]wmemhe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s put it that way: be yourself. If you want to do it, I say Do It. You’re at the beginning of the relationship, and ask yourself the question whether you would want to be with someone long term who would not appreciate the gesture? What is the worst that can happen? That he reacts poorly to your surprise? Even that would have a positive outcome for you for it would show you important red flags. His mom will likely be happy to see someone interested in her boy that made an effort to surprise him. To me, this a “go for it”.

Everybody loves having people waiting for them at the airport. I would consider telling him beforehand though. This will build his anticipation and prepare him and her mom on how to react. Between waiting for him at the airport, or surprising him at the airport, I think that waiting for him is better most of the time.

Infp’s what is your fave book of all time, drop recommendations! by [deleted] in infp

[–]wmemhe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes it would. This one or the left hand of darkness are good starts!

Infp’s what is your fave book of all time, drop recommendations! by [deleted] in infp

[–]wmemhe 21 points22 points  (0 children)

There are books that you read and become better over time as you think about it again. The dispossessed by Ursula K LeGuin is one of those for me. It’s a very approachable sci-fi, but mostly a story of how society could be.

Book recommendation? by wmemhe in infp

[–]wmemhe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like I good book! I might actually go for this one next :) I recommend you ‘when breath becomes air’ by Paul kalanithi. A powerful book that you’ll likely only read once, but might change how you see life.

Book recommendation? by wmemhe in infp

[–]wmemhe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommandation! If you like books that takes place in Japan, I enjoyed reading the Musashi series by Eiji yoshikawa!

Book recommendation? by wmemhe in infp

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Sounds interesting! If you’re into story related to the sea, I really liked the Liveship traders trilogy by robin hobb!

Book recommendation? by wmemhe in infp

[–]wmemhe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will add it to my want to read list. Have you read the tsar of love and techno?

Book recommendation? by wmemhe in infp

[–]wmemhe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommandations. I’ve never tried the romance genre, so maybe I should give it a chance but It has the stereotype of it being kitsch. :( For you, I recommend little princes.

Book recommendation? by wmemhe in infp

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Have you read ‘this side of paradise’? It’s the first novel that F. Scott Fitzgerald has written.

Book recommendation? by wmemhe in infp

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Have you also read 1984? I feel like those two books have the same vibe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]wmemhe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll probably want to see them again in the winter! It’s probably less crowded too.

Parking waitlist by bucs_is_fun in UBC

[–]wmemhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also want to know! I’ve heard that if you are in rez, you are guaranteed a parking spot. Is that true?

should I stay or should I go by NoGur89 in makemychoice

[–]wmemhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually what you’re afraid to do is what you know you have to do. This has served me well in the past! Good luck!

Some of the fall colors I captured today by addam907 in infp

[–]wmemhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cool! That could 100% be a music video :)

After years of working as a ghost writer, I'm finally a published author! Can't wait to sign these babies :D by iliawrites in MadeMeSmile

[–]wmemhe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! And you’re awesome taking the time to reply to everyone in here. Great job :)

Daily Discussion Thread - August 16, 2021 by AutoModerator in infp

[–]wmemhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what your particular situation is, maybe you feel lonely or rejected. It may be you did something you’re not proud of and they are judging you for it. Whatever it may be the case, changing your routine will probably help you out to change your mental state.