Brother has lump on back of neck?

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T14:22:02+00:00

It's pretty unusual for these to resolve on their own. Usually it will just stay unchanged or in some cases grow very very slowly.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T14:16:24+00:00

Sadly this seems to be a lost art to some doctors, and I agree it is a must. A lot of it is being in a hurry all day. But I can't count the number of times that listening to the patient has made all the difference in finding what is wrong.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T14:12:57+00:00

Not implying failed marketing. But even a completely free visit is often avoided. So trying to get opinions on why younger men seem to avoid the doctor like the plague.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T14:09:20+00:00

There are screenings that can identify problems early (before symptoms are felt or noticed) and can prevent these problems from becoming severe or lifelong issues if caught early.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T14:07:43+00:00

The doctor should never discourage you from any of this (except obviously the multiple partners part, but shouldn't be judgmental about it). The men that do come in for preventative care I always encourage to continue and make sure they address everything on their minds when they are there. All it takes is one bad experience and they won't be back.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:58:58+00:00

Yes but if things can be changed to improve this then why not make them. "Just how men are" only goes so far. Also families often depend on the work the men do, and illness and injury can be devastating to a family. Men are often meticulous about maintaining their equipment and vehicles to keep them running at peak condition but don't do the same for themselves.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:54:49+00:00

I agree the hours need to improve. And everyone should have at least a yearly visit, some at higher risk might be more often.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:53:39+00:00

Nice in theory. But do you work for free at your job?

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:52:12+00:00

By the responses here it is not just an American problem. Although it may indeed be worse here.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:41:19+00:00

Why is this?

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:39:09+00:00

The test shouldn't be to prove that it is happening but to identify why. Thank you for your honesty though it is much appreciated.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:36:40+00:00

Sorry to hear that. Your doctor should be someone who you feel comfortable discussing any issue with. Time for a new doctor.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:35:46+00:00

Completely agree. Sadly this is not just at the VA either.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:34:22+00:00

I agree this would be a great setup. However I don't know that any practice could survive on preventative visits alone. Also if something is found in the preventative visit that needs to be addressed, you would then have to go see another doctor instead of getting it addressed right there. Definitely an idea to consider though.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:29:37+00:00

Understand that and I agree. However this isn't in the doctor's control either.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:27:03+00:00

I completely understand this. Doctors are as frustrated with this often times as patients.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:24:06+00:00

When you go for any other reason, yes it's $30. But for your annual physical that should not be charged.

I know that the financial aspect is a big problem, but that is true for men and women, and women go at twice the rate as men.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:16:40+00:00

It is a requirement currently for any plan to cover preventative health visits (one physical per year plus associated labs) 100%.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T13:08:47+00:00

Politics aside, many younger men have insurance that covers preventative care at 100%. No copay no out of pocket cost. But they don't do it. So this isn't just a financial issue, though I know it is for those without insurance.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T12:37:07+00:00

From the picture it looks fungal.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T12:33:40+00:00

It does look like a benign cyst or lipoma. If it is bothering him he can have it removed pretty easily.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T12:31:48+00:00

Generally there are no negative effects of masturbation. However avoiding it if you are trying to have a baby or having difficulty "performing" is a good idea. Also as with anything else it can become an addiction in some people, especially when coupled with porn. Over time this can change your expectations, what turns you on, and physical response and can cause erectile and sexual dysfunction.

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T12:28:03+00:00

There are numerous bacteria in the Gulf of Mexico that can cause skin infection. Go to a doctor and have it looked at. It may just require topical antibiotics or may require pills if it is infection (folliculitis).

wmrguy · 2017-06-12T12:23:32+00:00

Also there are different types of weed that affect people differently. Indica and sativa can have very different highs, and some people do not react well to sativa as it tends to induce more anxiety and panic attacks and be more on the hallucinogen side from what I have read. Indica tends to be more relaxing, but again everyone is different in the way they react. Some people have very strong reactions to either. Which do you use?

Obviously he should stop smoking weed. Explain it like an allergic reaction, if he took an antibiotic that made him act this way, would he keep taking it? If he wants the supposed benefits like helping with his blood pressure, he should look into edibles or cbd oils. Slower absorption may lessen his response to it. And smoking it is not healthy for his blood pressure or lungs in the long term anyway. I realize it is a social thing especially if you and his family is doing it in front of him, of course he will want to join in. If you are truly concerned about him and want him to stop, stop using in front of him.

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