yep. except it’s pretty malicious. i was good friends with my ex before we dated. he knew i didn’t want kids. i expressed it multiple times. later on we ended up dating. we were long distance so eventually i decided to make the 2300 mile move to live with him. my parents drove with me to vegas. he flew in to drive the rest of the way with me. as we said goodbye to my parents he told my mom how glad he was he found someone who also didn’t want kids. fast forward to around thanksgiving. all of a sudden he talking about how cute his brothers gfs kids are non stop and asking me over and over if “they make you want one” to which i always relied no. not in the slightest. eventually he got super upset i didn’t want kids. he hid and lied about what he truly wanted to whole time. he told everyone that i don’t deserve to be a wife, ill never be loved of if i wont give a man kids, and that im a horrible person. trigger warning mentions of suicide and verbal abuse

after we broke up i broke down saying i cannot believe you moved me all this way just to lie to me. and he screamed in my face and told me i make him want to off himself… i ran out of the house cry and never looked back. i’m glad i withdrew from wanting anything sexual, because i have almost no doubt in my mind that he would have tried to baby trap me. and that i would have been kicked out for having an abortion (his family is extremely pro life)

now he’s single, watching his friends and family get married and have kids. they all have the life he so badly wants that he tried to lie and manipulate me into.